Birthdays come and go each year and how you celebrate is entirely up to you. One thing I can count on as I age (gracefully, I hope) is that I'll be making an outrageous, over–the–top, in–your–face type of cake. This year's flavor was a personal best (Double Chocolate Sour Cream) and I have no regrets. Why do I take on this unconventional task? Read on to find out and to get this delicious, decadent recipe.
Baking my own cake is my birthday present to myself.
Each year, I round up current inspirations (last year's recipe for strawberry milk cake was pretty nutty) and soldier forth with an indulgent trip to the market and a morning of puttering about. I listen to a favorite mix CD — this year's was a Hole compilation (my musical mind never left 1998, yes I've got issues) — and don a 'power outfit' to keep things classy. And I get to work. I follow instructions deftly and I try my best to make no mistakes. I mean, this present is going to a VIP!
My birthday falls about a week after the New Year, so everyone is on a cleanse or burnt out of party mode. I've found an extravagant confection lightens the mood, breaks everyone's avowed health promises and lays the foundation for a sweet and rich year ahead.
If you haven't ever made your own birthday cake, I highly recommend it. There's something very satisfying about taking the bull by the horns, creating your own favorite flavor combo masterpiece and cutting a healthy slice. Served with Prosecco, coffee or loads of milky tea (as I do), you can declare yourself the Queen and give thanks for life.
So, what birthday cake did I whip up this year? A Double Chocolate Sour Cream Cake. I was in the mood for a moist, dark chocolate cake and this recipe did not disappoint. It was everything I'm looking for in a chocolate birthday cake (I insist on layers for birthdays for some reason; a gateau or batch of cupcakes simply won't do) and I highly recommend this recipe. I'm going to bookmark it for future chocolate lovers.

Double Chocolate Sour Cream Cake
makes two 9-inch round layers
For the cake:
2 cups flour
2 teaspoons baking soda
1/2 teaspoon salt
1/2 cup unsalted butter, at room temperature
1 cup sugar
1 cup light brown sugar
3 eggs
1 cup sour cream
1 tablespoon vanilla extract
4 ounces dark chocolate (I like 70% for this), melted
1 cup strong brewed coffee
Crushed pistachios and extra cocoa powder for garnish, optional
Preheat oven to 350°F. Grease and flour two standard 9-inch cake pans and set aside. (For the cake you see above I used a 9-inch cake pan and a deeper 7-inch springform to create two different-sized layers.)
In a medium-sized bowl, mix the flour, baking soda and salt. In the bowl of a stand mixer (or using beaters), cream the softened butter with the sugars until light and fluffy. Mix in the eggs, one at a time on low speed, then add the vanilla extract and sour cream. On medium speed, mix in the melted chocolate and coffee.
Finally add the dry ingredients into the wet mixture in about 2 or three batches. Mix until batter is uniform; it will look light brown and turn much darker in the oven as it bakes.
Bake for about 30 minutes, until a toothpick comes out clean. Let cool on wire rack and wrap with plastic wrap until you're ready to frost and serve cake.
For the frosting:
3 cups powdered sugar
1/2 cup (1 stick) butter, at room temperature
2/3 cup sour cream
2/3 cup cocoa powder
Pinch salt
1 teaspoon vanilla
In the bowl of a standing mixer, sift the powdered sugar. Cream the soft butter into the sugar until fully mixed. Add the sour cream, cocoa powder, pinch of salt and vanilla and mix on medium speed until uniform in color. Taste and sweeten if you like by adding a little more powdered sugar (I like my frosting not too sweet).
To assemble the cake:
Use a few strips of wax paper to line a cake stand or plate. Frost generously between the two layers and the exterior; I just used a spoon and made simple swirls. Garnish with crushed pistachios and cocoa powder, if desired. Serve immediately.

Related: Recipe: Nigella Lawson's Chocolate Guiness Cake
(Images: Leela Cyd Ross)
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my birthday is in less than a week as well, and you've inspired me to have a party and bake this cake!
this looks incredible. i also bake my own cake! i didn't even realize it was odd until my roommate said, "you're... baking your OWN birthday cake?"
Happy Birthday!
My favorite birthday to date is the one where I took the day off from work (a Saturday), spent the day preparing my favorite dishes for dinner, and then had my friends over. It was so satisfying to spend the day doing what I loved and then having fun with my favorite people. Kudos to you!
Actually, I think a soon-after-new-year birthday is great, because everyone is bummed out that the holidays are over and oh look! a birthday party! yay!!
Looks like you got a very sweet treat for your birthday. And it looks delish! Love the idea of making it yourself. I may just have to try that this year.
I have to admit that for a number of years I quit baking my own cake but we had a local bakery that had a cake I was in love with... sadly we moved over 4000 miles away and then I learned the truly devastating news that my favorite bakery had closed its doors. So I am once again making my own birthday cake in hopes of finding a replacement for my favorite cake. I end up getting a lot of practice in as our eldest has his birthday 5 days before mine. (this year might be a bit bittersweet as he will be either off to college or in the military come his birthday next February... so we are having a decadent blowout this year!)
I had to laugh when I saw this post, as my birthday is Jan. 6 and I made/hosted my own birthday dinner just this past weekend. What better way to ensure you get all the things you like to eat?! Not even a restaurant can guarantee that!
My birthday "cake" this year was actually pie - Salted Caramel Apple specifically. I love pie and can live without cake, and it was my birthday so why not??
Thanks for a great post!
It was just my birthday on Monday , I had a day off, made my own cake, tidied up the house while everyone else went back to school or work after the holidays -it was a great day
Great post! What a wonderful birthday tradition - very inspiring. My birthday is in a few weeks and I'm definitely going to make this cake. Thank you!
My birthday is in January as well and though I love baking, for years my birthday cake was store bought. But now I have a friend who is an incredible baker and who does my cake for me. I can't wait for the next creation.
Did you personally develop this recipe? Did you test it a few times? I really like all the elements (the coffee, sour cream, 2 sugars), and might want to try it. When it comes to cakes, I get worried about recipe failure. Not trying to be negative, just wondering how you came up with the recipe.
I always make my own cake. Who better to do it? I never like bakery stuff so I'd rather be able to have exactly what I'm in the mood for. Sometimes it's elaborate and sometimes simple but it's always good and exactly what I wanted. This year my kitchen will be on the tail end of a renovation so I might have to bake at my friend's house instead. Maybe I'll make two!
Happy Birthday and what a great idea for how to celebrate it! Thanks for sharing this recipe!
How wonderful! Yesterday, Jan 10, was my birthday and I made my favorite cookies!
Chocolate Peppermint with lots of bittersweet chocolate inside and out! YUUUMMM!
This cake looks amazing, thanks for sharing! My birthday is in the summer, so I can't claim to enjoy "sinking into the warmth of the kitchen," but I have been making my own birthday cake for years. Yes, everyone thinks it's weird, but you're right, for someone who loves to bake (and who has two little kids), there's no better gift than a few (uninterrupted) of hours spent choosing a recipe that I've always wanted to try, getting all my supplies together, and baking a killer cake. And no one has to like it but me!
Its my birthday today! My husband insists that my children make my cake, and I always long to bake my own. You've inspired me to simply insist on making my own cake... This year I did specify lemon - its my favorite antidote to winter. But if not lemon, chocolate is a close second. And your cake is gorgeous!
Happy birthday to you both! So glad to see I'm not the only one who bakes her own cake - my birthday was the 7th, so I totally understand where you're coming from!! Cheers to early January birthdays and a great year ahead!
... but you're a Capricorn and they rock! Mine is Dec 31 and best friends are Dec 24, Jan 3 and 11. Daughter's, Jan 17, Grandson's Jan 15 and son's mother-in-law, Jan 8!
Zeke ~ with a cake the looks like this I can see why you want to bake your own.
Happy Birthday! Staceyann Dolenti
Something my daughter said, in complete innocence, when she was little that meant so much to me was, "I only like the cakes you make mom. Other cakes never taste right." The difference, and I never made a big deal out of it, is that I make cake from scratch...I never pointed it out, but she noticed the difference. And there is such a difference. My feeling has always been, if you're going to have something indulgent, it should be great, not just look like a cake, but have all the qualities that make cake a pure delight--real mashed bananas in a banana cake, great chocolate in a chocolate cake-- not 'dump and stir' (which is what the food industry calls premeasured cake mixes). Here's the thing- most people I know have never had a cake made from scratch-- especially younger people. For most people it's a complete novelty, and they assume it's a lot of difficult work, when nothing could be further from the truth. This chocolate cake looks fantastic, and I will be giving it a try.
I'm a september baby, and I've been baking my own birthday cake for a couple decades now. Baking is my forte, I love doing it, and I always get precisely the birthday treat I want most.
It's difficult to explain this to non-bakers, but this is what makes me feel special, particularly when I can share it with friends.
One year my husband sheepishly informed me that he had to have people over on my birthday to work on a major project. It had to be that day because it was the only day everyone was available. He prostrated himself and promised we would go out to dinner the next night to celebrate. I told him it was fine. Everyone coming over was somebody I really liked, anyway, and my birthday dinner would keep. What I didn't tell him was that I was going to spend the whole day baking birthday treats.
So everyone came over, and I broke out a chocolate cake, an apple pie, and a three-berry tart, all made completely from scratch that day. It was a surprise party, in an odd way. I surprised everyone with my birthday party and made all the presents for everyone else. I was surrounded by wonderful people who enjoyed the hell out of my baking.
I think that may have been my best birthday ever.
too funny! maybe this is a capricorn thing? i just baked my own layer cake for my jan. 6 birthday and it was great! i had such fun baking that cake and took my time with the process. it was probably my most successful cake to date!
I was wondering - can the cake layers be made in advance and kept in the fridge/freezer for a couple of days?
HURRAY FOR CAPRICORNS!! My birthday is next week! And I make my own birthday cake too! I've been making a chocolate cake by Tamasin Day Lewis from her book 'The Kitchen Bible' -- it uses part almond flour and is so awesome!
I had been baking my own birthday cake (Cancer sign here, folks.) but quit doing so in the past year or two after a... rather distasteful birthday experience. I'd put a lot of hard work into making this cake (prep, literally, took 2 weeks. Homemade creme fraiche, I'd spent the entire month beforehand looking at recipes, the whole shebang.), and when it was time for cutting, I'd told friends I was just going to make a quick restroom stop and then I'd be ready. When I came out (Maybe a minute later, if that.), I found all of my friends eating my creation; They'd cut it and started without me... so I figured why bother... It STILL irks me, I'm sorry.
I used to work with a guy from Germany and he told me that the tradition where he grew up (not sure if this includes all of Germany or just his particular region) was that the birthday person ALWAYS makes their own cake. Even kids from a young age are supposed to help their parent/s make the cake on their birthday.
Oh and happy birthday to all of you who just had one or are anticipating one!
lovely piece. my birthday is in january too, and your writing gave me lovely things to ponder as i prepare for my own birthday traditions next week. thanks for sharing!
Now that I have this wonderful receip - I think I'm going with the Germany tradition this year (they have such a wonderful tradition of inviting people over to celebrate). My birthday is in the summer too (end of August), and now that my home is renovated and beautiful, I will be having people over! I will start a new tradition for my 57th birthday!
I LOVE making my own birthday cake, too! ... for much the same reasons. Thanks for this post! And the recipe looks amazing. Maybe it will be mine this August. :)
I've baked my own cake for a while now. I really like it.
And this cake looks so good, I think I might lick the computer screen. :)
I always bake my own dessert and those for the birthdays in our family.
But what is the source of the recipe? Why isn't it credited.
Love this post and your tradition of making your own cake. There is nothing like making a birthday cake for someone from scratch and the love and attention that it shows the intended recipient.
Happy Birthday!
Whenever I've decided to do it, my friends have always done the double take and said, "you're making your own birthday cake?!"
It's so satisfying! And you get exactly the cake you want.
Remember when as a child you took treats to your classroom on your birthday? Now as an adult working for a school district we still follow the same rules. I have to bring birthday treats for all 20 people working in my office on my birthday. I have fun with it and try out new decadent recipes that my co-workers get to try. I'm going to keep this recipe in mind when my birthday rolls around! Cocoa...sour cream...pistachios...what's not to like?
@JUDIAU Leela heavily adapted this recipe from a couple different sources.
Happy Birthday to all! I also have a bithday this month. A sour cream chocolate cake has been my favorite for a very long time but my icing of choice is a chocolate ganache and you have Death by Chocolate Cake. It is the favorite for any special occasion with my family.
The cake looks fab. The picture of the hair flopping around loose while icing it -- not so much.
I don't drink coffee so I don't have any in the house - is it necessary for this recipe? Would a cream cheese frosting be weird with this sour cream cake? Also - I'd love the recipe for the butter cake you mentioned in the email!
I don't bake all that much - that is She Who Must Be Obeyed's (my wife) territory. The tradition in our house is that the birthday celebrant picks the menu and I cook it. That also applies to my birthday. Chilean sea bass with soy beurre blanc and tenderloin with spicy shrimp cream sauce tend to be very popular. Anything to cut into dad's retirement account. ;-)
I do the whole shebang! Dinner, drinks, dessert. I love cooking for other people, and my birthday gives me a great excuse.
@Bucherdo, I usually use this recipe: Quick Yellow Cake. It's my favorite - so quick!
@Bucherdo - not sure about the coffee replacement, it's one of those flavors that you cannot taste, but it enhances the flavor of the chocolate in the cake. I'd go with a cup of whole milk in its stead. And cream cheese frosting would be divine - a nice, slightly sour contrast to all that richness.
To all that responded here with a comment about your own bday cake making and the traditions you shared; I cannot tell you how happy I am to know that I'm not alone out there in the make your own cake territory! Reading through these comments made me grin ear to ear.
Long live indulgent cooking projects all year round!
My birthday is on January 6th, so I always make my family hold off on any "healthy eating" resolutions until after the day passes. I don't think they could resist if I presented a cake like this! Just look at that luscious icing.
Hi Leela. I really like the look of this cake, too. Just wondering if it would be more sugary than chocolatey, as the proportion of chocolate seems small. I usually use equal amounts (200g) of chocolate (89%), sugar and butter, 5 eggs, and only 60g of flour. I'm not used to working with cups and ounces, so maybe that's why the proportions seem unusual.
Leapkate: It's not an overall German tradition, in my family somebody else makes the cake. But then there are a lot of regions with different traditions, and sometimes they spread and change quickly.
Happy birthday! The cake looks amazing :)))
I just finished making a chocolate cake myself, but yours looks way more better then mine :)
This post came through the morning of my husband's birthday. So.... I printed it off and handed it to my ten year old and she, with a little help from me, proceeded to make it.
Well, it was the hit of the party! He wants it again. I've made some very good chocolate cakes, but this one is the best one so far! Thanks for a lovely recipe.
I can't fathom why making your own birthday cake would be odd, but I suppose there are enough people who don't cook or don't have the time. In 30 years I don't think I've ever eaten cake on my birthday that was not homemade, and they're always wonderful - the four-layer white chocolate and apricot behemoth I made a few years ago is still talked about to this day among friends and family. Now that I've discovered I'm allergic to wheat, making my own cake is more of a mandate than a luxury, but I still enjoy it all the same!
Perfect timing!! My husband's birthday is today and I needed a cake recipe. Thanks for the recipe. He will LOVE this one.
This may be blasphemous given that this ingredient is in the title of the recipe, but I'm considering substituting buttermilk for sour cream. 1) I already have it and 2) I'm sure it would work nicely flavor-wise. Does anyone see this as posing any problems that would require me to further alter the recipe (use baking powder instead, etc.)?
I love baking cakes, but I live alone and if I bake them I eat them (not good, at least not often). I made a fab cake for Boxing Day when I had a big group of family over. I was really looking forward to the leftovers but they decimated that thing. There wasn't a crumb to be had the next day. I was lucky to get one piece!
I just had my birthday also but I skipped the cake, ready to give up the goodies post holiday. On the other hand, some years I go to a Scandinavian bakery near where I work and get semlor, the best pastry in the entire universe (cream puff, almond paste & whipped cream).
Oh Jill, I know how disappointed it is to be assaulted by "friends" with bad manners. I will never again prepare a holiday dinner in the town I now live in as the local custom seems to be to eat and run. Not my style, and not the reason for a festive occasion. People even bring their friends and relatives with them - uninvited. There you stand with your apron on - cleaning up after the cretins.
Simpletwist: with both sour cream and with buttermilk you MUST use baking soda to interact with the additional acidity of those milk products, which are both "soured". It should work well, but the batter will be thinner, naturally. You may just bake it for less time.
To warn others, I made this cake recipe and did not enjoy it--it was not what I imagined it would be, from the title and description (I expected a "moist, dark chocolate cake for chocolate lovers"). Sorry to have to leave a negative comment. Turns out @Pearmelon was exactly right--the amount of chocolate in the cake itself is severely lacking. I didn't even bother making the frosting, we had a couple bites of the cake, were seriously underwhelmed and knew we didn't want to serve this to our company, and just threw it out and started over with a different recipe. This cake tasted like a light coffee-flavored cake with a hint of cocoa. Even as I was making it I thought to myself, this doesn't seem like enough chocolate...but I pressed on. I make different types of cake often and I especially love chocolate cake so I generally know what I'm doing and don't think I erred in execution.
Bottom line: this is not the moist, chocolate-y cake of your dreams chocolate lovers! Look elsewhere, I'm sorry to say. I did enjoy this lovely write-up though, for what it's worth. I'd recommend any Martha recipe instead, her cakes never fail me.
I made a gluten-free version of this cake for my husband's birthday. While the cake itself tasted a little off because of the flour blend (I'm still trying to perfect this GF baking thing!), the frosting was really delicious, and I'm usually not one to love a powdered sugar frosting. The ganache I added probably didn't hurt things, either. Thanks for posting this inspiration!
http://chimeraobscura.com/mi/chocolate-cake/
I made this cake tonight for my birthday; I was really excited about it. Unfortunately, it was something of a disappointment. I don't consider myself an inexperienced baker, but I don't frequently make cakes, so perhaps that was part of the problem. The cake was very moist, but so soft that both of my cakes broke coming out of the pan. I was able to cobble them together, and I made the frosting recipe as written, but as written, there was not even enough frosting to cover the sides of the cake, and by that point I was out of sour cream, and not in the mood to make another batch. I'm just glad that I wasn't serving the cake at a party or I would have been embarrassed.
I really want to make this but now I am wondering if the frosting will be enough to cover the whole cake??
I made this cake and there was plenty icing for my 8 and 9 inch cakes (even had 1/2 cup leftover). It was so so good, chocolatey and super moist! I am not a fan of butter icings but I think the sour cream made the difference, was a bit too sweet for me though, other than that excellent.
I love the idea of totally splashing out on your birthday and treating yourself. You deserve it! Great inspiration.
I just made this cake and not sure what went wrong but I checked all my ingredients and I put everything in. The batter was very thin and almost filled up the 2 9 inch round pans. Then after 5-10 of baking the batter stared oozing out the side rather than raising and by the time they were done baking they were pretty much caved in. After 40 or so minutes in the oven I finally took them out but they were still somewhat uncooked in the center. The overall flavor is amazing but I'm wondering if the recipe needs more flour and possibly baking soda?
I should also add that to solve the not enough chocolate problem instead if putting 2 cups of flour in I pu 1 1/2 cups plus 1/2 cup of cocoa
INCREDIBLE! I decided to make this cake the minute it was posted for my husband's birthday in mid-March. Then I saw all the disaster comments -- so I'm writing to say that this was the best cake I ever made in my life. I even sent pictures to our families and friends : )
After reading @pearmelon and @lizlemonn 's comments I subbed two tbsp dark cocoa powder for flour, and since I didn't have enough sour cream I used half sour cream and half yoghurt. The cake came out perfect in 25 mins (8-inch round cake pan). I didn't use this frosting recipe, instead had Martha's creme fraiche frosting inside and Martha's ultimate chocolate frosting over (so that when you cut the cake there's a white layer in the middle). The color of the cake was dark, dark, dark and looked beautiful, and it was so moist and chocolatey.
Thanks so much Leela! Looking forward to your next birthday for his next cake recipe : )
PS -- monkarella is right, the cake is really soft when it's just out of the oven. But the sides of mine left the pan quite well, just wait at least 20 minutes for it to cool down before running down the sides with a paring knife and then inverting the cake pan on a big plate. Use two big spatulas to move it around because it really will break if mishandled when warm...
I have never made a cake from scratch in my life. I am embracing the organic, nonprocessed lifestyle. My buddies birthday came up and I found this! It turned out perfect. The chocolate we used was the 70% chocolate dark. It was very chocolate. It was very moist. Everyone loved it. Thank you for this.
I made this cake for my birthday yesterday. It turned out quite tasty, but it was VERY hard to unmold the cakes from the pans. The first layer ended up breaking in half when I tried to unmold it. I managed to get the second layer out of its pan by waiting for it to cool completely then using a knife around the edges. Then I used a spatula to gently lift around the edges until the bottom seemed to be unstuck from the pan. I used 8" round pans, so I had some leftover batter which I used to make a few cupcakes. Even though it was a non-stick pan and I oiled them well, the cupcakes were very hard to get out of the pan. I think this batter is just very sticky. I would recommend cutting parchment paper to line the bottom of your pan if you are going to make this cake.