Oh, Laziness. Your reputation is so terrible that in many circles you're actually considered a sin. You keep company with D- report cards and are reportedly the cause of numerous character faults and societal problems. Can you ever be seen as something positive? That would would be quite a hill to climb! Only, being Laziness, you probably won't be doing much hill-climbing. You'll remain an outcast, banished from the doorstep of any top-drawer, self-respecting, go-getting, take-charge, up-to-the-minute Super Hero.
Except in my house. You are warmly welcome here, Laziness. But maybe only for a short visit.
The other day I spent my morning in a rather lazy way. I read a trashy novel in bed, consumed endless mugs of sloppily brewed tea and didn't change out of my jammies until the sun was quite high in the sky. It was pure laziness and I loved it. I even found myself doing nothing but sitting on my couch, just wandering around in my thoughts, allowing them to be wild and uncontrolled and interesting.
Eventually the demands of the day crept in and I shed my sloth and torpor for more conventional ways of being. I got around to last night's dishes, planned a simple dinner and organized several piles of life's flotsam. But it was sweet to have had those few hours (and my own permission!) to lollygag about. I've come to think they're necessary for a contented and creative life. There has to be spaces in the busyness for the magic to slip in and a lazy morning spent staring out the window is perfect for such occurrences.
So I say find a way to give yourself some of this unstructured, lazy time and start unravelling some of your usual assumptions and preoccupations. Allow something to influence you that isn't a product of your diligence and striving, something wilder and less predictable. Who knows what fascinating places this will take you!
Huh. Maybe this being lazy isn't so unproductive after all.
Related: Weekend Meditation: Fallow Time
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Comments (21)
I love this.
Hear, hear!
After weeks of snow/rain/ice; shoveling & its aches; late and slow city buses; stressful work, social life in overdrive, I gave in yesterday to sheer laziness. I popped a silly French movie into the DVD player, lay on the sofa with a quilt over my toes, dozed and dreamed and it was wonderful.
Back to normal today--cooking for another social gathering--a big afternoon tea with girlfriends. All very nice, but I wouldn't mind another day on the sofa with subtitles.
Reading should never be compared to laziness. Even if the book is "trashy" or not terribly intellectually stimulating, it is better than watching TV. I really wish more people read...
laziness, yes it is essential for well-being!
we were on the same page this sat. am... nothing better sometimes!
viva dana, viva!
Eating breakfast in bed with the doggies as I read this! Yay for laziness!
LOVE. thanks for appreciating laziness. you make it sound like an art! downtime is so important for the soul.
Knowing how to savor and appreciate downtime fully is an under-appreciated art. Keep up those sloppy tea and jammies-reading mornings girl!
Love this article Dana (long time reader, first time poster).
I call what you described my beloved Pyjama Sundays and while I do think laziness can be an appropriate term, I sometimes wonder if I'm simply longing to rest. Rest with quiet and coziness.
HM you call it Laziness, I call it recreational time!!!
Yes!
During a big snowstorm last week, The Fella announced that he had the day off, and we happily started planning a Snow Day Movie-thon... until he learned that he did have to work after all.
He was so disappointed --- until I proposed that we have our own snow day this week, regardless of the weather. We'll stay home with a stack of movies, plenty of cozy food, and stay snuggled down in blankets all day long. HURRAY!
yes! laziness gets a bad rap...people feel so guilty about chilling out but you've gotta do it sometimes! i love that you posted this.
You call it laziness - I call it appreciating my bed.
Necessary time needed to refresh my soul and recharge my batteries. Wonderful post
Thank you for this!
This looks like my weekend, complete with the same bamboo headboard and everything! I love that bed frame, it has traveled the country with me and I wouldn't trade it for anything fancier :)
This is not laziness-this is Holy Leisure, or Sabbath.
Word. Saturday was spent on the sofa with the cat, TCM (30 days of Oscars!) a pile of books, and my smart phone to look at knitting patterns (I don't have wireless yet). Breakfast was coffee, strawberries, chocolate, and a croissant. Bliss.
The occasional day spent in one's jammies, reading or watching movies isn't something that should ever be apologized for or one should feel guilty about. The perfect "mental health day".
Thank you Dana - we need to do 'nothing' regularly. I especially see it with kids (including my own 7 year old) who often says he is 'bored' when noting is 'scheduled'. Kids and adults need to be bored from time to time to reflect and think creatively or just sit happily doing nothing.
@Mlle Kate -- your Saturday sounds amazing. How wonderful!
Love "lazy" days filled with movies, knitting, books, and quality alone time. Especially this time of the year!
Lazy weekends (at least one day) allow me to be the energizer bunny the rest of the week. Got to do it!
I feel like in order to function properly in the world, I definitely need my fair share of laziness. I honestly don't understand how some people are go-go-go all the time, and successful, and so energetic! I am somewhat jealous, but I love being lazy so I don't think I would trade.