Red Brocade
by Naomi Shihab Nye
The Arabs used to say,
When a stranger appears at your door,
feed him for three days
before asking who he is,
where he’s come from,
where he’s headed.
That way, he’ll have strength
enough to answer.
Or, by then you’ll be
such good friends
you don’t care.
Let’s go back to that.
Rice? Pine Nuts?
Here, take the red brocade pillow.
My child will serve water
to your horse.
No, I was not busy when you came!
I was not preparing to be busy.
That’s the armor everyone put on
to pretend they had a purpose
in the world.
I refuse to be claimed.
Your plate is waiting.
We will snip fresh mint
into your tea.
© 2002 by Naomi Shihab Nye, from 19 Varieties of Gazelle: Poems of the Middle East.
(Image: Dana Velden)

Comments (8)
She makes me weep. Thanks for sharing this one.
Beautiful!! I always look forward to reading your weekend meditations.
On this Memorial Day and future ones: I look for how we can support each other to re-member the love expressed in this poem.
I am grateful for your meditation posts Dana, supporting us all to express our love to each other.
Lovely.
We are headed off to a family bbq in a bit and this was a nice reminder of the joy of sharing a meal with loved ones.
Beautiful! Thank you.
Beautiful, really beautiful, but what does it have to do with Memorial Day?
lella:
Here's my thinking around this post. Memorial Day reminds me of people who have died in combat and their families. Which activates my wish for peace, which then leads to a huge, almost impossible to answer question: how can peace happen? I think this poem offers a glimmer of a solution -- discovering our shared humanity through food and graciousness and the courageous act of enthusiastically welcoming strangers into our lives.
Naomi is a wonderful poet, and also a really friendly and gracious woman. Which this poem so strongly suggests!