Every one knows that moving is no fun, so those details will be spared. Let's just fast forward to a post-move scenario, one where you're still living in your original place but all your stuff was taken away the day before and while you thought you had organized things down to the last salt shaker, it turns out that you forgot the fact that there are still a few last meals to be eaten here. Like breakfast.
So rising up from your air mattress-on-the-floor sleeping nest, you rummage around in the kitchen, a disaster area of last minute packing chaos, digging out a lone container of plain yogurt from the fridge and a little strawberry jam, too. So far, so good. There's the coffee mug you had remembered to leave behind and score! a dusty fork wedged in the back of a drawer. Breakfast in hand, you wandered back to your bed which has been neatened into a makeshift couch.
Sitting there, your eye travels to the arch above the doorway. How many times had you gazed at that arch while talking on the phone, or considered that crack in the wall while thinking through a problem? You notice the sliver of sunlight that makes its way across the floor at this time of the year and the crooked drawer in the built-in cupboard that you had always meant to fix. And without intending to, you realize you are saying goodbye. Not with the words so much, but with a feeling, a mix of sadness and sweetness and appreciation. You realize this is your last breakfast here.
Forks made lousy spoons but you manage to scoop most of this delicious last breakfast into your mouth. Just like your feelings and just like this situation, the taste is a little sweet and a little tart. Grateful for it all, you eventually abandon the fork and scoop up the last of the yogurt with your finger, and lick the cup clean.
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(Image: Dana Velden)
Straw Mat from The ...

Life is Fleeting, even when we don't want it to be. Even though change is often good, we don't really want to go through it.
Just the idea of missing the hint of grief.
I am an avid but silent reader of your posts- and just created an account specifically to comment on this. This is so lovely and truly resonates with how I myself am feeling this morning. Thank you and have fun setting up your new home.
From my heart - thank you. I needed to see this today.
Beautiful. I can definitely relate.
We are moving Tuesday, and this is my life to a T right now.
Gratitude is good. Best wishes in your new abode, Dana.
Love it. I just finished moving this past weekend and the dust is beginning to settle. Definitely had a similar moment in the last few hours at the old place. Good luck with your new home!
On a more practical note...
Get silverware with rounded handle-ends. Thus, your fork reverses to a spoon for sugar, coffee or yogurt (but not for soup, probably.)
this was lovely, especially the part about looking at little parts of your house over and over again and realizing you'll miss them-- even the imperfect ones.