Plus, it was a lot of fun.
In many Asian countries where Buddhism is still practiced, the monks are not allowed to purchase anything, even food, and they are not allowed to store or hoard food either. Often they can only eat once a day and that meal is before noon. So they are deeply dependent on the lay community to feed them. For the lay community, it is a meritorious act to bring food to the monks and place it in their large brass begging bowls. This giving and receiving of food is an offering, a ceremony, where all participants are nourished.
When you work hard in service of a person or an organization or even an idea, you are giving your energy, your lifeforce, an actual bit of yourself in support of that something or someone. You are saying "This is important. This is worth sustaining."
In the case of our 36 pie offering, our two friends going to do something not only for themselves but also for their community of friends and family. They are going to say 'I do" to a set brave and bold and noble vows. And in doing so they will bring us all together, in a conspiracy of sorts, to support them in this lifetime commitment, this celebration of complete trust, this leap of faith called marriage.
So when two dear, dear people are about to take one of the biggest leaps of their lives and they want pie, then by jove, we're giving them pie!
(Images: Dana Velden)