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Survey: How Well Can You Eat With Chopsticks?

2009_01_13-Chopsticks.jpgWe had absolutely delicious Korean food at a friend's home last night. Although our chopsticks skills aren't shabby, we still have room to grow, especially when navigating Korean food, which is less familiar to us than Chinese and Japanese. It made us curious: do you eat with chopsticks? And if so, what's your comfort level? Take our survey then read on for some chopsticks tutorials.

 
 

Here are a few chopsticks tutorials from around the web.

Chopsticks Technique and Etiquette at Rob's World
• Video: A 6-year-old explains how to use chopsticks
How To Use Chopsticks at Incredible Sushi

Do you eat with chopsticks at home, or just when you're out? What do you use your chopsticks for at home?

Related: Three-Legged Chopsticks from MoMAstore

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It's the Korean stainless steel chopsticks that are a little more challenging -- they are more slippery, and the shape is different.

(oh, am I ever craving Korean food now....!!!)

posted by mschatelaine on January 13th 2009 at 11:38am
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I grew up with chopsticks, and they've carried over into everyday kitchen use... to the point that I cook just about everything with them (except pancakes and deep-fried goodies). When I cook in friends' kitchens, I feel clumsy with wooden spoons and spatulas. I guess I've gotten used to chopsticks as an extension of my cooking arm! I can't imagine a more versatile utensil.

posted by phu on January 13th 2009 at 11:42am
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Like phu, I grew up using chopsticks. My family actually scheduled "western-style" eating nights to hone our fork and knife skills, though I still cannot eat a salad or spaghetti without looking foolish.

posted by Michelle of Montreal on January 13th 2009 at 11:53am
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I can use them but my eating speed which is already 1/2 that of most of my peers is then cut in 1/2 again----unless you want to wait another 20 minutes for me to finish, I'll take a fork.

posted by sally599 on January 13th 2009 at 11:59am
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I agree with mschateilane, Korean metal chopsticks are quite the challenge! Particularly because they're quite heavy, stainless steel is super slippery and their 'gauge' is more rectangular than square. It's well worth it though, all for the love of Korean bbq.

posted by morphomercedes on January 13th 2009 at 12:04pm
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I sort of grew up with them. My dad is half Japanese so we'd go out for Japanese fairly regularly and my sis and I would always use chopsticks. Christmas Eve dinner always involved chopsticks as well.

Tips for newbies:
-Don't order udon! Squeeze too hard, and the noodle breaks, don't squeeze hard enough and it slips away. Katsu donburi is easier and quite delicious, although nothing like Udon.
-Tamp down your rice if you're having trouble eating it. If it's pressed together, it sticks so you can get chunks instead of single grains.
-Remember, sometimes you're going to pick up your food, but other times you're going to need to use the chopsticks, held slightly apart, like a shovel or spoon. This is especially true with rice.
-Practice! Eat with chopsticks at home if you really want to get decent at it. It's fun, especially if you go buy some cheap but darling sets from an Asian market or something.

posted by Tiamat_the_Red on January 13th 2009 at 12:15pm
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I'm awful with chopsticks. The first time I tried, I flung a piece of sushi (which I'm now told is OK to eat with fingers) across the restaurant, and my mortified teenage grandson had to retrieve it. I'm very good at patting my head and rubbing my tummy simultaneously, but with chopsticks, I'm totally spastic.

posted by 39520expat on January 13th 2009 at 12:26pm
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I'm very fluent in chopstick. I am always sad when the mandatory January "lose those holiday pounds!" advice is "eat with chopsticks to slow down." No. Won't work. I can eat just as fast, alas.

posted by cmcinnyc on January 13th 2009 at 1:12pm
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Chopsticks make me sad. Especially since most used in the US are not reusable and get thrown out after one use. When i think of all the sushi joints plus chinese takeout places that go through so many chopsticks, i get sad. :(

posted by mh330 on January 13th 2009 at 1:57pm
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I am hopeless when it comes to chopsticks despite my repeated attempts. My husband and I went to sushi on Friday and managed to not completetly botch my dinner but that was a rarity.

posted by rosebud on January 13th 2009 at 2:10pm
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I went to elementary school in San Francisco's Chinatown, and have been eating with chopsticks as long as I've been eating with forks and knives.

When I was in first or second grade, at Chinese New Year the local community center had a children's game - how many marbles can you pick out of a bowl of soapy water with chopsticks? Everyone thought it was hilarious that I, a little non-Chinese kid, was the grand prize winner of the day! (I won a plastic bag full of goldfish.)

posted by chez shoes on January 13th 2009 at 2:26pm
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Chez Shoes, that's funny -- I used to win the Chinese New Year chopstick contests, too! :D

posted by Emily Ho on January 13th 2009 at 4:02pm
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Wow! Stainless steel chopsticks?? The Korean place by me just has the disposable kind.

I've eaten Chinese, Korean and Vietnamese and sushi/Japanese (even Udon) food with chopsticks. That probably means I should get my own pair; anybody have any good recommendations?

posted by kibitzknitz on January 13th 2009 at 4:22pm
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one of my personal biggest embarrassments as an adult (besides not being able to fold a fitted sheet) is not being to use chopsticks.

I'll blame my parents for it. I didn't have a real Asian restaurant experience until I was in college!

posted by sophisticatedsoul on January 13th 2009 at 5:58pm
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I agree with mschatelaine and morphomercedes...metal Korean chopsticks are so difficult! And...mschatelaine...you made me crave Korean food too!! I was fortunate enough to live in Daegu, S. Korea for four years growing up, so being able to use authentic chopsticks was so awesome!

posted by unseeneclipse on January 13th 2009 at 6:33pm
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I have no problems using chopsticks, metal or other types. I can actually use them with either hand. I had chopsticks shoved in my hands when I was four. Of course, I also loved escargot when I was four, so I guess I just had progressive parents.

posted by charise on January 13th 2009 at 7:43pm
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I agree with MH330. Too many disposable chopsticks!

When we get takeout we tell them not to add them and I plan on picking up some of the many pretty travel sets for husband and I to use when we go out for sit-down Asian food.

Like these: http://www.to-goware.com/store/cart.php?m=product_list&c=7


:-)

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posted by EmmieB on January 13th 2009 at 7:47pm
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I'm very good with chopsticks. I never understood the big deal about using them. It's not a feat of incredible dexterity.

As for all the complaints about disposable chopsticks in the U.S., they use nothing but those in Japan (including restaurants which are not doing take out food or delivery).

posted by Orchid64 on January 13th 2009 at 7:58pm
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i was always kind of ok as my parents always had chopsticks and we'd use them maybe once a week.

i went to japan on exchange when i was 15 though and thats when i really learned quick. i love eating with chopsticks.

i wish it was considered socially acceptable here to carry your own chopsticks around. heck i wish it was just everyday practice to carry your own knife and fork around too.

posted by alicee on January 13th 2009 at 8:00pm
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mh330, what's the difference between disposable chopsticks and plastic forks? Obviously, we should encourage restaurants to move away from both...but isn't it a little rude to say "chopsticks make me sad"?

posted by jesster on January 13th 2009 at 11:59pm
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My brother and I used to practice our chopstick skills picking the ice cubes/chips out of our water glasses waiting for dinnner.

posted by rwobin on January 14th 2009 at 1:36am
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....there are travel chopsticks....they're like mini pool cues in a box. They screw together in the middle to make full sized chopsticks. I also got a mini pair that goes in my bento box (there's even a space for it) so when I bring my lunch I don't have to worry about utensils.

I've used them all my life, but I do use them wrong. My cousins make fun of me all all the time. I also cook with them, however my boyfriend only uses them to stir things like paint and tosses them. So I'm on my 3rd set....that makes me sad.

posted by a6sinthe on January 14th 2009 at 3:10am
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I'm not quite expert with them, but I learned to use them in third grade, so I do okay. The wooden disposable kind are the least slippery, so they're easiest to learn on. But I bought two pretty coated bamboo pairs in chinatown so I rarely have to feel bad about throw aways. Besides, if you do end up with a pair of disposables you can always take them home and reuse them for something. They make good plant supports, for example.

posted by cedargr0 on January 14th 2009 at 10:57am
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My grandmother got on a Chinese food kick and taught me to use them when I was young. It turned out to be handy when about fifteen years later, I started dating an Asian guy.

From my now in-laws, I have travel chopsticks that collapse like radio antennas to fit in a little case. Mine are ribbed so they're not so slippery. A bunch of co-workers were entertained when I whipped them out to eat duck legs out of a noodle soup. (That was admittedly a bit awkward, partly because the chopsticks kept collapsing because of the fatty broth.)

I do have a porcelain set that's difficult to use, though (and heavy!)

Although I've found chopsticks handy in cooking, I'm a little puzzled that my husband tries to beat eggs with them. Sure, you can do it, but it's not the most efficient tool for the job. (I'm picky about beating eggs though - it must be a fork, because a whisk doesn't puncture the yolk properly and therefore takes longer.)

posted by whytephoenix on January 15th 2009 at 11:33am
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About carrying your own--you can get handy cases at Pearl River and keep a pair at your desk at work. Much nicer than splintery disposibles. Of course, eventually the cheap case wears out. And then you'll be sad.

posted by cmcinnyc on January 15th 2009 at 6:41pm
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Cooking. They are fantastic for cooking. I'd like some of the tied ones that are actually intended for the task, but even the annoyingly-smooth cheapies have their uses.

Also, there's no faster way to eat a bowl of noodles (oh dear, my college is showing...).

posted by Wyatt on January 16th 2009 at 1:51pm
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I eat about as well with chopsticks as I do with a fork and knife. About two years ago I started working with native Koreans who were temporarily in the US, and they eventually gave me my own set of the metal chopsticks. At first I found them a bit tricky, since I was accustomed to the disposable ones or wider bamboo ones, and the metal ones were heavier, longer, and thinner than what I was used to -- but after maybe two weeks or so they felt perfectly natural. I eat with them all the time now, basically whenever I'm eating at home.

One thing that's awesome about Korean food is that it's totally acceptable to eat some rice dishes with one of those wide Korean spoons. I can pick up rice with chopsticks, no problem, but it's a whole lot more satisfying to shovel a mouthful of fried rice in all at once. (Similarly, one of my biggest pet peeves is people who eat most Thai food with chopsticks. Use the spoon!!!)

posted by peanut on January 17th 2009 at 6:36pm
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Eating with chopsticks is one of the few things that I have a natural ability for, although I didn't pick up a pair of them until I was at university. I should really pop into Chinatown the next time I'm in the West End just to have a couple of pairs on hand (no pun intended) at home.

posted by martigny on January 19th 2009 at 1:50pm
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I have never understood the point of learning to use a less-efficient implement when there is a more efficient one readily available - I don't use them on principle.

posted by Violetsrose on January 20th 2009 at 8:29am
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They're not less efficient for everyone, Violetsrose. It's easier for me to eat some foods with chopsticks -- and I didn't even grow up in a home where we used them for meals. Once you're comfortable using them, there are times when it's handier to have something to just grab food with rather than trying to spear or scoop it up.

Of course, it depends largely on what your typical diet is. Most of what I cook is Korean or Japanese. It's not like I'd eat a steak and mashed potatoes with chopsticks. But for grabbing some kimchi out of a big bowl of kimchi chigae, a fork would probably be harder.

posted by peanut on January 24th 2009 at 3:24pm
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