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The "accessorize" bit is really key, for me. Once I realized I didn't have to cook everything every night, making something for dinner became less intimidating.

I am super lucky to have a boyfriend who is excellent in the kitchen, and who doesn't mind fending for himself in my teeny and poorly stocked excuse for one. Part of my problem is that I want to help, but I don't like getting in the way, and I know he's the kind of cook who just goes from whatever pops into his head. I call him the MacGyver of the kitchen because he can come up with some amazing meals from my fridge and pantry randoms. So...I would like to cook for both of us, or have more involvement in the process, but I am not sure how to divide the duties. Not to mention that I am totally intimdated by the thought of him watching me, even though I sit and watch him all the time. Not that any of my fears are warranted because he's a wonderful guy.

Does anyone have any advice for sharing the work in a little kitchen?

STLcolleen, I would simply tell him that you really want to start cooking, and would like to make dinner yourself one night. The point made above is really important, that you don't have to cook EVERYTHING. Just make a nice pasta some night. You can do it!

It's unfortunately true that sometimes people who are 'fluent' in the kitchen get annoyed by people in the way, especially in a small kitchen; I'd think it might be better if you tell him you're going to cook something special and ask him to read, or something. It sounds like he is a wonderful chef and could teach you lots, but I think at the beginning it might feel more empowering to just do it yourself. There will always be time for lessons later.