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Good Food with Evan Kleiman: When Do You Eat With Your Hands?

2008_11_4-EatWithHands.jpgSure, we'll eat a sandwich or a slice of pizza without a knife and fork, but what about something like a Caesar salad? Manners expert Helena Echlin was on Good Food this past week talking about the etiquette of eating with your hands, and she actually advises giving salad a try!

 
 

Echlin feels that eating with our fingers actually gives us a better appreciation for the food. Not only are we tasting it, but we're feeling its texture and interacting with it in a different way. Fingers can also be a more effective and elegant "utensil" for eating particular foods.

Echlin also makes the argument that eating with your fingers can be a bonding experience. As she says, "It's hard to stand on ceremony with people once you've all been sitting around eating with your fingers."

Our opinion? We're not entirely convinced.

We think that there's definitely a time and a place for eating with your hands. There are certain foods that we can all agree can be eaten with your hands no matter the context. Hamburgers, whole-cooked lobsters, and curry scooped with naan come to mind.

It also depends on context. If we're at home with a group of close friends, we don't have a problem with anyone using their fingers to nibble on green beans or snag the last sushi roll. But when we're at restaurants, we'll generally stick with whatever utensils the restaurant provides unless eating with your hands is clearly a part of the meal we've ordered.

What do you think? Are there foods that you will - or will not - eat with your fingers?

• Listen to the full interview and hear the rest of the past week's program of Good Food on the Good Food website via KCRW.com.

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Comments (10)

Hard one. Indian food, African dishes, but generally, no I would not eat with my fingers. But for certain cultures this is a way of life, and I respect that. Oh, and I do feel, for some STRANGE reason, more "connected" to the food, and it taste better...odd...

posted by kjpierre on November 4th 2008 at 6:15am
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for someone who is not used to eating with hands it will be odd. before the fork and the spoon came everybody ate with hands.
And if you must know when you eat with your hands you eat less, because you feel the food - it is not a foreign body getting inside your body. you eat with all your senses - touch (eating with hands ) smell (herbs, spices), visual (color ) etc etc.
if it is a soup you slurp it down.. one is supposed to enjoy food - not consider it foreign ( as if eating with a fork and a spoon)
the britishers came up with some kind of etiquette and every body seems to be following it.

And you should be washing your hands very well before you eat your food.

well...i can keep talking about it..

posted by BlackandWhite on November 4th 2008 at 6:28am
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I love to eat with my hands! It is so much more satisfying... I don't do it all that often, though, because it's not socially acceptable.

Emily

posted by Emily Sneds on November 4th 2008 at 6:49am
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ugh. i hate eating with my hands. I am really strange when it comes to clean hands and am one of those million napkin people. I have to wipe my hands after each time I touch food. I would be made fun of at a Salvadoran friend's home because I would eat pupusas (with loroco and salsa) with a fork and knife. I would eat pizza with a knife and fork if people didn't clown me about it.

posted by chusmabilly on November 4th 2008 at 7:35am
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I'm with BlackandWhite in that when you eat with your hands, your more connected to your food. It may sound strange but I think food just feels more satisfying when you eat it out of hand. Could be the fact that I come from a Filipino background and it's fairly common there.

posted by thehalfie on November 4th 2008 at 7:50am
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I love eating with my hands. I eat less and enjoy the food more. Since we rarely eat out, I have many opportunities to do so!

posted by seidhr on November 4th 2008 at 7:56am
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Totally agree with BlackandWhite. As long as the process isn't too messy, I'll do it. I'm incredibly tactile, and for me, this is just an extension of eating by sight and smell, as most people do already. At home, I use tortillas to scoop up what I can't pick up with my fingers and wooden chopsticks (bad, I know, but I *so* prefer them over metal utensils), when a tortilla won't do.

I eat with my fingers at dinner parties and restaurants and find that most people will join in the fun.

posted by bedtime for gonzo on November 4th 2008 at 9:18am
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My mother taught me that if utensils are present, then utensils should be used. So if I am at a restaurant with silverware, then I use it for everything but the dinner roll. But if I am at a picnic, then it's totally hands-on!

posted by Aimi on November 4th 2008 at 12:33pm
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I love eating salad with my hands (fingers?). It makes my mother crazy, but I find forks just interferes with getting the right mixtures in each bite. I do like Aimi's mothers lesson though, and would never consider using my fingers for salad at a restaurant.

posted by ScorpioJ on November 4th 2008 at 6:04pm
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Um... am I the only one who's curious what the dish in the picture is? It looks like crab, but there's something else going on there too. Maybe I'm just hungry....

posted by kls987 on November 5th 2008 at 4:07am
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