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On Leaving the Dirty Dishes Until the Next Morning

2008_10_14-dirtydishes.jpgWe know that, to some of you, the thought of waking up to a kitchen full of sticky, crusty dishes is worse than any hangover. And usually we agree. We like to clean up as we cook, as much as possible, and have all the dishes finished before we go to bed. But. There are also times when turning out the lights on the countertop chaos and leaving everything until morning holds a certain luxury...

 
 

Too often we miss out on savoring a meal because we're thinking ahead to the clean-up waiting for us. On weeknights especially, the hours between the end of the workday and bedtime are a precious few—and occasionally (not always) it's nice to eat dessert, snuggle with a loved one, or read a magazine instead of washing dishes and wiping down countertops. We simply set our alarm a few minutes earlier and clean up the next day.

One tip: We do try to run hot water in extra crusty pans, to soften the mess overnight. We always splash a bit of water in the bottom of red wine glasses, and we try to at least put up leftovers so they don't spoil. But overall we've found that rarely is the clean-up job any harder the next morning.

We know this idea may gross some of you out. And trust us, we're neat freaks, but there's freedom in letting the dishes sit and taking a breather every once in a while. There's no harm in trying it.

What are your thoughts on the morning-after dishes?

Related: Cleaning Up: What Do You NOT Put in the Dishwasher?

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no way. unless your too drunk or other more interesting activities come up (wink wink), waking up to dirty dishes is the worst. as for precious time, nothing is more precious to me than those extra minutes in the morning when I can sleep more.

if you clean throughout the prep process, you shouldn't have that much to do anyway.

posted by amt230 on October 14th 2008 at 5:13am
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If you clean as you go during your preparation, it never takes all that long to finish up the leftover dishes after eating. I wash dishes by hand and it never takes more than 15 minutes and rarely takes as long as 10. I know how long it takes because the gas shuts off on my water heater after 10 minutes of continuous use.

I always clean up so that I wake up to an empty sink (well, almost empty... my husband sometimes has late night snacks of cereal). Mainly, I do this to reduce the chances of luring in cockroaches in summer. In Tokyo, this is a serious risk.

posted by Orchid64 on October 14th 2008 at 5:14am
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I go through spurts. There are many times I have the kitchen 90% cleaned by the time the food is done, and finish up after eating.

And... to be honest, there are other times the dirty dish might sit there 3-4 days because I'm too tired (aka- lazy). But if the dirty dish is sitting there, it's ALWAYS soaking, not getting crusty!

posted by UptownGirl on October 14th 2008 at 5:29am
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Sometimes if I leave the dishes overnight, my works-at-home fiance will even do them while I'm out the next day! That's the best...

posted by maggie (p/c) on October 14th 2008 at 5:33am
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I definitely have gotten better at making a concerted effort to clean as we go so that the serving dishes and the ones we eat off are all that's left. BUT, I agree, sometimes it just gets a bit too late and you leave them till the next day. If everything else is caught up (i.e. drying dishes have been put away, counters cleared, etc.) it's no big deal. For people who often eat late (boyfriend works till 7, sometimes still have to run to the store, don't wind up eating till 9 or later), but can't go to bed too late (I'm a 8:30-5'er) the dishes occasionally get left. And it's ok. And sometimes, like mgood, the boyfriend will have time to take care of 'em before he's gotta be at work at 11 ;)

posted by STLcolleen on October 14th 2008 at 5:48am
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If I have guests over, I definitely leave the dishes. I'd rather spend time with them than wash up. Friends are more important than tidiness.

posted by Jezebella on October 14th 2008 at 5:59am
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Leaving the dishes are one of life's luxuries. I think it's important to make an effort to clean the kitchen, but I love those moments when I can say "ah, whateve..." and drag off to bed.

posted by kjpierre on October 14th 2008 at 6:23am
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On a recent episode of "Mad Men", Betty Draper's housekeeper suggests that she ought to put the dirty dishes into the basement so Betty can go to bed after putting on a big dinner party. I thought: what a great idea! (Now if only I had a basement to put them in...)

posted by fvlaura on October 14th 2008 at 6:31am
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You don't need a basement! That's what your oven is for, silly.

posted by Jezebella on October 14th 2008 at 6:47am
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For the most part, I never leave dishes, with the exception of a challenging pot to soak. I'm scared of pests, and I hate waking up to the mess. However, we have done this a few times lately, since my husband has been working so late. We ate at midnight last night (which is obscene), so there was no way I was staying up to finish the dishes. After a night soaking in water, they were really easy to clean up this morning.

posted by ottan on October 14th 2008 at 6:51am
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My partner and I always left the dishes, until we discovered that waking up to a neat kitchen in the morning is a better way to start the day, at least during the week. But during our long, cook-fests on the weekend, all bets can be off....

posted by Elissa at Poor Man's Feast on October 14th 2008 at 7:20am
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we are presently battling bugs in our house, so leaving the dishes isn't an option even when I'm exhausted on weeknights. As far as dinner parties go, clean up is part of dinner! As a guest I'm always happy to wash up in thanks for a great meal, and have had plenty of fun with another glass of wine and chatting in the kitchen while we wash and dry....

posted by FromTheFuture on October 14th 2008 at 7:39am
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I don't understand how people "wash as they cook"... I'm usually feverishly chopping the next ingredient while the onion/garlic/whatever is softening or water is boiling, etc.

I'm 50/50 on doing dishes after eating. If I'm not too tired or running out the door, I'll do them. Othewise they wait. I don't mind the extra 10 minutes in the morning to clean - it's actually a nice soothing time to sort out what needs to be done that day.

posted by 2T on October 14th 2008 at 7:54am
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I'd rather soak the stuff over night and have some free time with the BF than do them - and they usually wait till the next night (or a day or two later to be honest) to get done. Mornings are all about focusing on my coffee cup rather than doing dishes and since I live in a tiny NYC apartment, the BF wouldn't like it if I started rattling pots and pans as he's sleeping... as long as it's not mold-slime-bug inducing, the dishes can wait!

posted by IdoruNYC357 on October 14th 2008 at 8:15am
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I often do dishes in the morning before leaving for work and I like it that way.

posted by LuckyMonkey on October 14th 2008 at 8:49am
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Working as a chef in a professional kitchen I've discovered that keeping a clean prep area makes cooking more enjoyable and less stressful. At home I tend to wash as I go so I don't have dirty dishes, pots and pan strewn about the kitchen, otherwise I will get super stressed and end up burning something or cutting myself. Luckily I have a wonderful husband that does the remainder of the dishes after dinner (that's what he gets for not knowing how to cook!). Occasionally he will leave a crusty pan to soak overnight and it takes every bit of willpower for me not to run to the sink and start scrubbing away!

posted by fitzowicz80 on October 14th 2008 at 10:38am
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I do some cleaning as I go, but once I sit down to dinner, no more dishes are done until the next morning. I find it rather easy to do dishes first thing in the morning, and that brief cleaning leaves the kitchen ready for more cooking.

posted by Leisureguy on October 14th 2008 at 10:51am
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I don't leave dishes until the next morning. Ever. Just not my style. I relax more after dinner when I know the kitchen's clean. When we have company over, I'll hang out with them and then just clean when they leave. Most of the time, our friends will volunteer to help and since great conversations happen in casual relaxed environments, who am I to deny a fun side to the evening?

I'm also firmly in the 'clean as you go' camp. It makes it easier when I prep before I cook... measure, chop, rinse, whathave you. Lining everything up on my counter ensures that I have all my ingredients at the ready and then things just get tossed in the sink and then tossed in the dishwasher. Easy peasy.

posted by thenewmrsw on October 14th 2008 at 11:10am
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I love me some morning dishes-doing. It's a great way to feel my day has been productive before I've even gotten to work.

posted by Katie in Berkeley on October 14th 2008 at 11:22am
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For most part, we clean up before bed. But growing up I remember distinctly the routine of my mother leaving the holiday dishes until the next morning (especially if it was going to take more than one dishwasher load). The following morning, we would lazily nibble on some leftovers while getting dishes and other tasks done.

posted by aftermath on October 14th 2008 at 1:37pm
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As a person who has a hard time waking up, it is nice to do chores in the morning before going to work. I feel like I'm less groggy than when just wake up, get dressed, and go to work. I love walking my dog, eating breakfast, then doing little bits of cleaning while my coffee brews, and finally hopping in the shower. Of course, I have gotten much better at cleaning as I go, so I may only have a few cups or plates to put away in the morning.

This just reminded me that I had four male friends who lived together in college and one time went at least a month before doing the dishes. It was to the point where they were drinking out of random plastic bowls, or just not using containers to drink or eat.

posted by danasays on October 14th 2008 at 3:46pm
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I cook, my partner is supposed to do the dishes. But sometimes he doesn't and I don't nag him. So sometimes the dishes will sit and sit until they can't sit any more.

We never do dishes in the morning. So it's either after the meal or after work the next day.

posted by buda on October 14th 2008 at 4:00pm
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At my parents house in their huge kitchen I can easily cook and clean up. But for some reason in my tiny kitchen I can't keep up. I think its probably because I don't cook the meals I do at my parents. I hate my kitchen . . .

posted by girlonthem00n on October 14th 2008 at 8:01pm
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The bf and I recently moved to an apt with a DW, which I turn on with the day's dishes after dinner... The sound of it is soothing for cuddle-time. But now it's the task of unloading it the next morning that I dread. So spoiled, I know!

posted by gourmandizzy on October 15th 2008 at 2:52am
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I grew up in a house where we never left dirty dishes for the next day. My mum usually waits a few hours before bed to get to them but I prefer to wash 'em while I'm cooking (like cutting boards, utensils, measuring spoons ect)

and for the past year we got a cat and he likes to jump on counters and lick plates and get into trouble so we now really HAVE to do the dishes after we eat.

posted by witchbaby on October 15th 2008 at 1:09pm
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I haven't had my own sink in which to *leave* dirty dishes since I left home at 17, so I've gotten into the habit of washing things immediately. (I lived in a dorm for 5 years, where I had no sink of my own, and now I live in an apartment which is effectively a dorm room, where I have a room with a tiny sink and a toilet, but no shower/bath) People who leave dirty dishes in a public sink (unless they're soaking something briefly and will come back asap) suck.

posted by randomeater on October 17th 2008 at 10:36am
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depends how you feel but getting up to clean dishes while you could have one with your partner is a sin~

posted by Haunted_Studio on October 17th 2008 at 11:11am
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I clean as I go. Washing the final dishes with the guests in the kitchen and divvying up the left overs is my favorite part of the dinner party.

posted by ExperimentsInHonesty on October 17th 2008 at 10:40pm
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This is what I do most of the time. It isn't my ideal... but we don't have a dishwasher, and if we clean as we go somehow we *still* end up with a full sink of dirty dishes at the end of the meal.

posted by sphinxie on October 18th 2008 at 1:39am
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My mornings are usually a mad rush out the door. I don't have a spare minute to do chores (I'm NOT a morning person). So leaving dishes until the morning isn't an option.
I'm terrified at pests, so I can never sleep well if my counter's unwiped and dishes uncleaned.
Occassionally (very rarely) I would leave the dishes until the next day, but only when the dishes are few and easy to clean (i.e. no sauce or grease).
My biggest pepeeve is marinara sauce.... the smell of it... while great when you eat it, is horrible when you leave it out for a while in the sink.
I usually run my dishwasher once a week, just to keep it clean. I see it as a treat! Other times I just wash dishes by hand. Since it's just my bf and me, it's fairly easy to manage.

posted by dezine on October 13th 2009 at 2:37pm
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