
Joshua Weissman isn't your typical 17-year-old boy. A few years ago, overweight and bullied in school, he finally decided to take his health seriously, but packaged diet meals and quick fixes didn't help. Instead, he started cooking — and in the process changed his life.
Now 100 pounds lighter, Joshua has won the respect of the classmates who once teased him and even inspired some of the teenage boys around him to eat a little better. He is also a talented food photographer and runs the paleo-focused food blog Slim Palate. We talked to this inspiring high school junior about middle school bullying, his bumpy road into the kitchen, and the ways his eating habits have changed the people around him.
As a kid, Joshua says he ate a balanced diet that included lots of greens, veggies and fruit, but as he got older and his parents started letting him make his own food choices, he began eating more processed and fast food. When his family relocated from California to Texas when he was in middle school, he became less active, using all his free time to play video games and indulge in his worsening eating habits. "I came to a point where I literally just did not care," he says. On nights when his parents would go out, he would eat an entire large meat pizza, an order of wings and a side of cinnamon sticks, a habit that his parents tried to stop, without success. "They didn't know what to do. They were really scared and confused."
Things got bad at school. "I was getting made fun of constantly, every single day. Twenty, thirty times a day, sometimes even by kids I thought were my friends." Finally driven to the breaking point, Joshua decided to change the way he ate. "I literally changed my outlook on eating in one day because I was so sick of it," he says.

Joshua, then and now
After an unsuccessful attempt to lose weight by eating packaged diet meals, he started focusing on eating real, whole foods, which awoke his childhood interest in cooking. With this simple change, he began to lose weight. He also fell in love with cooking, especially cooking meals for others. "Just the words, 'Wow, that was so good, thank you so much,' it's really one of the most meaningful things someone can say to you."
Now he cooks dinner almost every night for his parents, who have also lost weight by simply eating the same foods Joshua eats. At school, he has won the admiration of the kids who used to make fun of him, and even fields nutrition questions from the cheerleading squad and football team. He cooks for his friends all the time and has become their go-to source for food questions. "They'll literally stop me in the hallway, show me something and ask, 'Is this healthy?'"
He is just starting to think about colleges and is kicking around the idea of opening a restaurant someday. In the meantime, he shares photos and recipes for his latest meals through his blog, Slim Palate, which features mainly paleo-friendly recipes incorporating vegetables, meats, nuts and the occasional dairy. Why dairy, when many paleo eaters avoid it? "I'm going to be honest," he says. "I'm not giving up my cheese." An eating philosophy any teenage boy would agree with!
• Check out Joshua's blog: Slim Palate
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(Images: Joshua Weissman)
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Well, yes. WIth an awesome story like that, I will add his blog to my greader. Congratulations, Joshua!
Congratulations! You look awesome, your blog is beautiful, and I'm looking forward to trying your recipes.
What an inspiring story! Congrats!
Go ahead on, Josh!
Awesome job! It's a struggle sometimes, so I'm glad he finds cooking that rewarding, because that's the perfect reinforcement.
Meanwhile, I can't read his blog because all of the attention means it's crashed, but I'll definitely check it out later!
Congrats! So happy you found the right way for yourself!
I am EXTREMELY impressed by you!
Congratulations to you for the courage, the persistance, the criativity and for being an example, even to your parents!!
Wonderful story. I know plenty of folks twice his age who say they could never give up X, and just accept being overweight, unhealthy and unhappy.
what a great response to an unhealthy situation.
but shame on kids for being so rude prior to his weight loss-his graciousness absolutely is something to be admired.
Way to go Joshua!
This is incredible! Slim Palate is now bookmarked. What an inspiration to children and adults.
You go with your bad self, Joshua!! ROCK!
Joshua, you will go far, very very far! I see a male version of Rachel Ray in the near future for you :-)
Love your blog and have it book-marked, too!
Wow, this profile gave me goosebumps. Off to check out the blog and add to my ever-growing collection of primal/paleo feeds.
wow, kudos to him. Making lifestyle changes as a teenager is not an easy task. Congrats!!
Good for you, Josh! You are an inspiration!
This is awesome, though I have to say -- I like your longer hair!
How inspiring you are, Joshua! Being the change you wanted to see in your own life is already having ripple effects for so many people around you. Pretty dope.
I agree with starryeyedspryte: your curly hair is amazing!
Inspiring! Very impressive, Joshua! All the best to you!
This is amazing! I am so inspired. Terrific blog, too.
All kudos and empathy to Josh. However, this write-up of his work seems to validate bullying fat kids by suggesting that making their lives unpleasant will make them decide to lose weight. Social scientists do not find that increased weight stigma results in increased weight-loss success, and we do know that stigma is in and of itself a health risk for people in stigmatized groups. When we say that Josh was "finally driven to the breaking point" by bullying, we give bullying agency to effect a change we think is positive. I think Josh got very lucky by finding paleo eating instead of any number of less healthy sets of eating guidelines (and gender may be an issue here; teenage girls struggling with their weight and all the baggage related to it might well be less comfortable with eating paleo because of the way it embraces appetite), and he seems like an awesome human—I hate the idea that this article, and the world at large, thinks it's okay to bully him if it results in weight loss. It's not, and many other fat children who are tormented for their sizes aren't blessed with the access, abilities, and know-how that are clearly serving Josh well.
I agree prolix. I don't think I'll ever forgive those who made fun of me and I don't think that bullying is a good choice either. Now it's in the hands of kids to take it upon themselves on whether or not they want to improve their life.
Even though my parents didn't know what to do, without their love and support I would not have been able to do it.
Congrats Joshua!!! You have an amazing blog and are truly inspiring!
You're an inspiring young man. Congratulations!
Inspiring. Good for him!
Such an inspiration!! You will definitely go on to do big things with your determination, ambition, and desire to make a difference! I look forward to hearing about your future adventures (as I'm sure you will be a household name). Congrats Joshua!
Total Awesome-sauce. More kids (people in general) like this please :)
You rock, Joshua! I love your blog - and what beautiful, beautiful photography!
How effing awesome is this? Talk about turning lemons into lemonade (minus the sugar but you know what I mean). I'll be following your blog!
@prolix - I think you're reading into the post. AT wasn't saying "look how successful that bullying was!" They were just sharing the same cause & effect that Joshua himself shares on his blog. (He was ridiculed; he didn't like it; he did something about it.)
Bullying is always wrong, even when it inadvertently sparks a positive outcome.
Amazing. Love the recipes, the ideas, the pictures, etc. I'm bookmarking this one too!
Well done, Joshua. What an inspiring, encouraging story and a wonderful blog which beautifully showcases the fruit of your labor. I can only imagine the positive impact it makes on youth and adults alike. Like a pebble tossed in the lake, the ripples will touch many. What impresses me even more, is that you have taken what might have become bitterness and transformed it into something nourishing to both body and soul, and returned it laced with grace.
Cool kid, but I don't love this write-up. Like it was his fault that the people around him were immature, abusive jerks? Health is important (though - note - you can't tell anything about health simply by looking at someone's body), but I'd really rather have the bullies learn that treating people terribly is bad than learn about whole grains and lean meats or whatever.
What a difference! I am very impressed! Well done!
Congrats to Josh. It's refreshing to see someone who has changed their habits without becoming obsessive (still enjoying his cheese despite dairy typically being off limits in the paleo diet).
@discerning, there's a difference between setting an example of good character, and striving to win the admiration of your tormentors (which is just another way of letting their bad behavior control you). I'm not sure that the article meant to convey that latter meaning, but that seems to be how Holler interpreted that sentence.
"@discerning, there's a difference between setting an example of good character, and striving to win the admiration of your tormentors (which is just another way of letting their bad behavior control you). I'm not sure that the article meant to convey that latter meaning, but that seems to be how Holler interpreted that sentence."
Very well said, Jen. In agreement.