There is no doubt that I am inherently a food snob, and it is no secret that I’m trying to turn my kids into foodies too. I believe that what we feed our babies — and how we do it — can influence their eating habits as they get older. I've got a one-year old who loves sushi and a toddler who will at least try anything, but loves hot curries, tagine, and a medium rare steak. All is not perfect; she hates potatoes.
In our house we make all our own food and we try to do absolutely everything organic. I've been accused to being snobby with this insistence. Maybe, but my thought is that organic food generally tastes better and my biggest concern, aside from nutrition, is developing the girls’ palates. If an organic pear has a better taste than a supermarket one, then that's the one that will teach her what a pear should taste like. There is also the environmental benefit, of course.
Finally, we generally cook in season for ourselves and so we did for baby food. That meant she ate a lot of root vegetables to start. It also meant a splurge on the so not local fruits like oranges, mango, and papaya, but they are in season in the Southern Hemisphere and she was introduced to them after Christmas in Baja. With spring finally here she is enjoying strawberries, the first rhubarb, and soon the local asparagus.
It also means I am cooking for all of us, and not just her. This is something ultimately central to teaching the girls dinner table etiquette and the importance of family dinners. We all sit down together and eat the same meal. Sure, Hubby and I might have cold veggies once we’re done cutting and helping the girls eat, but we all enjoy the mess and mayhem of sitting down together. It’s noisy, food ends up all over the place, and we spend more time laughing and chatting as much as people can with a 1 and 3 year old.
Mealtime is also about exploring new tastes and textures. Just as I introduced solids we were still breastfeeding a half dozen times a day. At the time, she was getting a lot of her nutrients from me, supplemented by the veggies, fruits, fish, and meats she is trying out. I must admit, though, that one of the main reasons I was still breastfeeding is that I am too lazy for bottles.
Don't waste your money on fancy kits or cookbooks. Even if you aren't much of a cook, this is easy to do. Really easy to do. Just do one food at a time. As they develop and you feel confident you can try mixing flavours. I always go for things I would generally eat myself - squash with apples and maybe some chicken, beets and oranges, beef and broccoli. And a kit? Just fancy ice cube trays and a special DVD.
Introducing New Foods
When I first introduced a new food I only made one or two servings. That way I wasn't stuck with a huge batch of cauliflower if she wasn't going to eat it. I would simply put a few florets or tablespoons aside from whatever I was making for the rest of us. Introduce one new food every few days. Once you are sure the kid likes it and has no reactions then make bigger batches.
Now, there comes a point when all babies should refuse baby food. It's often a hard adjustment for us parents. Will they get enough to eat? Have I chopped those beans small enough? Does she have to be so messy? Many a friend will keep trying to feed the purees and mashes to make sure that the kid is getting enough to eat. But remember this, by the time they insist on finger foods they usually don't need to eat as much. And they do get more in their mouth than you think they do. That is, until they learn to feed the dogs hovering below the high chair.
It is rather tempting at this point to let them survive on bananas and peas. This phase of baby food can be more time consuming than the purees. Only because of the incessant chopping required. You are your baby's sous chef, dicing and prepping every day. The one saving grace is that this is also the time when you can start introducing spices, oil, butter, and other condiments. Knowing that can make your life a lot easier.
At this point you have two choices: reserve a bit of what you are making to steam and chop for your little one. This only takes a few extra minutes of prep, and maybe another pan/dish if you want to cook it separately. Or, you can simply take what you've cooked - prior to salting it - and cut it into small pieces. Okay, you can do it after seasoning it too, but I am notorious for undersalting, according to Hubby.
Transitions and Mealtimes
No recipe, no technique. This is about the transition from purees to people food. You've been getting rougher textures already, right? You've been offering things like bananas, peas, and blueberries to encourage her pincer grasp, right? No? Then start with these. In fact, I start with these within a month or two of starting solids. The longer you stay on smooth purees, the harder it will be to move to finger foods.
Again, make sure you are sitting down to eat with your baby. Too often we feed the baby first, make our dinner, then feed ourselves. Sure, your dinner will get a little cold or it will feel like you are eating ungodly early, but it is important to sit down as a family and eat. Your baby will see you eating your food and their natural curiosity will draw them to your food. Not to mention the extra benefits your family gains when sitting down together.
Thank you for sharing, Cheryl! We actually split Cheryl's introduction to baby foods into two posts, so watch for the second half tomorrow, with more ideas on what to feed your growing ones and how to make their food yourself without too much fuss.
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I like Cheryl's philosophy and approach to cooking for kids.
Oh, and I'd love to see a regular feature here on cooking for babies and kids, it would be a nice off-shoot linking this site to Ohdeedoh!
Thanks for this post. My husband and I do not have kids yet but we have talked a little about our own future kitchen philosophy when that time comes. It is nice to read from someone who has lived it so we can reference your advice.
A self proclaimed snob of any kind should be able to write an article free of gramatical errors.
@emilylh177, do you mean gramMatical errors? :-) Any errors can be attributed to my editing; if you point them out specifically I'll go and fix them. Thanks.
I've been accused to being snobby with this insistence
i assume that sentace wasnt written by you, but the actual author of the blog, right?
i guess its really syntax and not gramMar (oops, at least I didnt call myself a snob first) and it just struck me as off-putting. As a fellow mother was just hoping for an article that tried to engage the reader as opposed to turn them away.
I work with kids reciper and cooking classes here in Brazil, and I alto teach mother how to prepare some nice and healthy baby food.
It's a great job!!
I also have a web site, in portuguese: www.pat.feldman.com.br
I am far more distracted from a lovely article by an OCD grammar Nazi than the barely noticeable grammatical error.
Thank you for your insight Faith
The author never claimed she was a language snob. Just chill out and let it go.
wait, i kind of agree with the grammar nazi that cant spell (sorry emilylh177, but kind of funny) you have a point, it struck me as being pretentious too
I thought I had a baby who would eat anything, loved to feed herself, etc. But now at 16 months she has really limited the stuff she will eat. I try not to stress, but I wish she ate more beans and veggies and less crackers and fruit. She won't eat meat or tofu either.
Once upon a time, we also ate all organic, all the time. Then the economy happened and now we just can't afford it. We try to get local meats and fair trade bananas, but that's kind of it until thing improve :(
Great segment. Keep 'em comin'!
Great article/segment. As a parent of a 15 month old and someone who loves food and cooking, I would love to read more excerpts like this. Thanks so much!
It's the author chiming in here. Can you forgive me for a typo? The sentence (not sentace) in question should have read, "I've been accused OF being snobby with this insistence." I accept any and all criticism, whether it is related to grammar or content.
alisa k, our first kid went from child who ate vindaloo to one who subsisted on bread and butter and fruit for months. We just kept offering her what we ate, and didn't present those preferred options at every meal. Over the course of a week she was relatively balanced. Even now, some days/weeks are better than others.
And you are right about the economy affecting food choices. It has certainly changed things for us - we ate a lot of root vegetables this winter and frozen fruit. Now we are focusing on local even more, and trying to keep in season. So far the older one hasn't noticed grapes are now missing from her diet!
Feel free to visit me at my blog, where I address a lot of the challenges we face in feeding our kids, and hopefully raising them to be adventurous and conscious eaters.
This is a great post about feeding your baby. My favorite website for homemade baby food recipes is:
http://www.babyfood101.com
The site suggests that you just cook for yourself and feed some to baby. There is a 6 month course of suggestions you can sign up for to guide you in introducing a variety of foods for your baby.
I hope this is helpful.
Lisa
Great article! My son is three, and eats most everything, though he does get picky occasionally. Our ped. says "look at is as a balanced week, not a balanced meal".
We like to eat in season. My son ate a lot of butternut squash as a baby. I find it interesting to look at the differences between first and second babies. My friends' second babies are eating solids like pasta, pizza, etc., WAY earlier than we all did with our first babies. With the first one, we read the books, made the purees, timed everything correctly "how old when he can have broccoli?". With the second? not so much.