A good friend of mine had a baby, her second, on Mother's Day. I don't know about you, but I like to cook for people when they have babies. Is this a dying tradition? When I had my daughter, I assumed people would be bringing lots of food, but it wasn't exactly a parade of casseroles. We ended up eating a lot of take-out. It shouldn't be that way.
My friend lived in Paris for years and since I know that Boeuf Bourguignon is one of her favorite dishes, I decided that this was the meal I should carry around the corner to her apartment. It's hearty, reminiscent of the good life in Paris, and gets better day after day. In other words, the perfect birthday dish for a hungry Francophile new mom.
So I turned to my grease-splattered Essential New York Times Cookbook, and discovered that it had not one but two Boeuf Bourguignon recipes. Score.
The New York Times has published recipes for over 150 years and food writer Amanda Hesser set out to compile, test and update the favorites. In the end, over 1,000 made the cut and the result is The Essential New York Times Cookbook, a big red brick that now wears a big brass James Beard Award around its neck.
The two techniques for Boeuf Bourguignon in Hesser's book are from a column Craig Claiborne wrote in 1960 called “When Beef Becomes Boeuf.” One method, and arguably the more popular, involves browning the beef, then adding the vegetables and wine then adding a beurre manié (mixture of soft butter and flour) to the mix. If you've ever made Beef Bourguignon before, this probably sounds familiar. In the book it's called "Boeuf Bourguinon II."
The other method, and the one Hesser prefers, is much easier. Mapie de Toulouse-Lautrec, who wrote about food for Elle back in the 1960s, called this the "true" recipe. It's also how Julia Child makes her daube de boeuf in her Mastering the Art of French Cooking. You simply build the dish by layering the ingredients, much like a trifle, in a large casserole or Dutch oven, finishing with a bacon topper and some wine and brandy, and cooking stove-top for a couple hours. Aside from its easy preparation, the big difference is that this method produces a very pale brothy sauce versus the thick, winey sauce in the traditional version.
To the printed recipe — called "Boeuf Bourguignon I" — I added two things: some dried morels and a few sprigs of fresh thyme. Otherwise, I followed Amanda's words exactly. I loved the permission to cook everything together at once, but I also loved the composure and orderliness of building the dish in layers. It is French, after all; there should be something slightly restrained about it. Knowing the layers run deep, serving it calls for a deep dive with a serving spoon, again just like a trifle.
Two important things about Boeuf Bourguignon no matter whose recipe you're using: make it a day ahead so the flavors can come together (this way you can also chip away the layer of fat that rises to the top and coagulates) and serve it over a bed of liberally buttered fresh egg noodles.
I asked Amanda, a mother of twins, what she thought of my birthday gift to the new family. "Parents will get plenty of tiny socks, but what they really need those first few weeks is food to sustain them." Amen, mama.
Ingredients:
2 tablespoons vegetable oil
2 large slices salt pork or 6 large slices of bacon
1 1/2 cups diced carrots
One 2-pound boneless chuck or beef rump roast,cut into 1/4-inch thick slices
Salt and freshly ground black pepper
2 medium onions, coarsely chopped
1 clove garlic, minced
2 shallots, finely chopped
1/2 pound mushrooms, trimmed and chopped
1/2 bottle (750-ml bottle) Burgundy or pinot noir
1/3 cup Cognac
1. Pour the oil into a large casserole and add 1 slice salt pork (or 3 slices bacon). Add the diced carrots and cover them with one-third of the sliced beef in a single layer. Sprinkle with salt and pepper. Sprinkle the meat with half the onions, garlic, shallots, and mushrooms. Cover with a layer of half the remaining beef and sprinkle with more salt and pepper. Add the remaining onions, garlic, shallots, and mushrooms and cover with a final layer of the remaining beef. Top with the second slice of salt pork (or remaining 3 slices of bacon). Pour the Burgundy and Cognac over all. Season with additional salt and pepper.
2. Place the casserole over high heat, and when it begins to simmer, cover and lower the heat. Cook for 2 to 2 1/2 hours, or until the meat is tender when tested with a fork.
From The Essential New York Times Cookbook, by Amanda Hesser (W. W. Norton & Company, 2010)
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I made a giant lasagna for my friend after she gave birth and she was much more thankful for that than if I came by with a cute outfit for the baby. Food and diapers are a lifeline for new moms! Her church also had a sign up for members to come by with food for the new parents. Genius!
I completely agree! I always bring food (and coffee!) to new parents - after pushing out a baby, who has the energy to cook? Mark Bittman's meatballs and tomato sauce are a real winner too.
I am going to make this for a friend who recently gave birth to triplets! I am sure that she and her husband need delicious food delivered to them as often as possible.
That looks amazing!
I live with a couple and their daughter, and during those first couple weeks, we made it a rule that if you were there to see the Littlest Kid-Face, you had to bring food. Her Grandma came over so often that we didn't have to cook (or clean the kitchen!) for a week!
It really is a blessing to new parents to not have to worry about that - especially for the momma.
Another friend of mine just let me know that she and her little one are happy, healthy and ready for a visit from me. My only questions were "what day" and "what am I cooking for you."
And if that's a dying tradition, I'm bringing it back, one pregnant friend at a time.
Well let's hope this isn't a dying tradition! I have cooked many a baked mac and cheese, chicken parmigiana and lasagna for my friends who have welcomed a new baby. I have also been on the receiving end of such generosity and I don't think food had ever tasted so good!
You are a good friend, Sara Kate!
I have a near full case of Charles Shaw 2005 Californian Beaujolais Nouveau, don't ask my why. It's still drinkable but better for cooking now.
The other day I cooked a "Coq au Vin" it turned very well, it used up one bottles.
Your Boeuf Bourguignon recipe will use up another bottle, I'll sip the extra while making the meal.
I'll let you know how it turns out.
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Not a dying tradition here! I also bring a bag of quick-grab goodies if the mom is nursing. Nursing makes you HUNGRY. And it's nice not to have to prepare a quick something (maybe a one-handed something so you both can eat at the same time) in the dead of night.
Thanks for this post. I don't remember if anyone cooked for me after I gave birth, but I have never more appreciated a meal than when my friend brought our family a big pot of homemade jambalaya, salad, crusty bread and brownies after my mom passed away this spring. She even brought along new bottle of Tabasco. We'll never forget that act of kindness.
I can't imagine not cooking for new parent friends! That was such a life saver after our daughter was born. we even had people bringing good food to the hospital so we weren't stuck with cafeteria food. Yay for good friends!
This recipe looks great and bacon makes everything that much better!
I so wish somebody had brought us food when the baby was born (after the 2 first weeks during which my mom came and stayed with us and cooked lovely meals) - sadly after she left we lived on freezer pizza, despite the in-laws living 2 blocks away and coming over every day empty-handed. Fortunately we've moved away and for the next baby I'm planning on making tons of freezer meals. Ladies, think of this when you leave your family and friends to live where your husband is from... :(
Just a tip for those cooking for new parents - anything you can eat with one hand (i.e. just a fork) are a godsend to a nursing mom. Our friends were lovely about bringing us food, but there were a few dinners where everyone was hungry, if you catch my drift, and my husband relished some chicken-on-on-the-bone concoction while I nursed and looked sadly on. Fortunately he could cut my food for me in the evening, but I was on my own during the day. Fried rice chock full of veggies and eggs and bits of meat won the blue ribbon in our house.
I couldn't agree more. The friends who brought food were the ones that I knew got me. And the need doesn't end in the first week! One friend surprised me with salmon chowder when our baby was almost a month old-- and she brought it for lunch so I could devour the entire thing all to myself!
It's a comforting and heartfelt tradition that should definitely go way beyond that first week. New parents are pretty tired weeks/months after birth. A very lovely gift indeed. One that even non-new parents would love to receive, in my opinion.
i've organized meals for families who are welcoming new babies in two communities - the first one, we did two weeks' worth, and the second (currently, through our synagogue) we do one week, and sometimes opt to do every other day for two weeks. people can choose to push it off until when they want it - if they have help immediately after giving birth from family, they sometimes choose to accept food from the community a few weeks later.
a nice way to do this without having something previously organized would be to ask the new mom for a list of friends, and send out an email/phone/googledoc/calender, (i think there are some websites out there too) and have people sign up. organizing it would be appreciated too - i sometimes cook since i enjoy it and meeting the new mom, but mostly try to delegate.
other people at the synagogue organize for families who are dealing with illness, and death ("sitting shiva") which might be other times to consider bringing over food.
when i cook, i try to do simple, healthy food. and be sure to ask about any allergies, or vegeterianism.
Although I agree with food as a lovely gift for new parents, some of you forget that simply time when someone else is caring for your little one is also a gift...you actually sound quite ungrateful. Would you rather the in-laws or friends not show up at all? When I went to visit my sister and brother-in-law I would bring me - that's it - just me. They eat differently than I cook so when I showed up, it gave my sister a chance to cook what she wanted to eat, as well as relax a bit. I'm not saying food isn't a great idea - just reminding everyone that gifts come in many forms and all should be appreciated.
I bring my friends food after they have their babies. Either home cooked food if time allows, or I will pick up a roast chicken and salad on their way over. Especially if I am visiting around meal time.
When some friends had their baby a couple months early, we sent them several prepared meals from Omaha Steaks. They said they loved it - allowed them to come home to eat and get back to the hospital quick and they didn't have to rely on fast food.
When our daughter was a newborn, our favorite gifts were food! So I think it is a great idea!
Rachiti, yes, I would have rather they not shown up at all. When you've just had a baby you're not particularly in the mood for people to sit around on your couch day after day flipping through the channels and raiding your fridge and cupboards for whatever little treats you have on hand. And it's different when it's your own mom or sister (mine at least, I'm very close with them) than with in-laws.
Know what I mean? :)
Kate78, I completely agree. Most people want to come over and take baby and that was the last thing I wanted. I was trying to get used to this new little life I was taking care of and I would have preferred someone coming over and cleaning, doing laundry, cooking etc so I could focus on the baby and not have to worry about everything else.
Of course, anything someone offers to help with after you've had a baby is appreciated but I think making meals, cleaning, etc for a new mom is great idea.
Hear, Hear!! I agree it is a wonderful thing to do to cook for the new mom. My weight dipped below pre-pregnancy level after my son was born because I just couldn't get enough to eat. My husband refused to believe I was as hungry as I was, and no one thought to cook for me. I was too busy and too tired to cook much. Nursing takes an extraordinary about of calorie intake. Hats off to you for your thoughtfulness. Recipes look wonderful, and a good choice for sharing as it reheats nicely and is all the better for sitting till ready for consumption.
kate78, I agree completely. For the first few weeks, it's best to limit visitors to those you know will be actually helpful. And no, playing with the baby does not count as help! I breastfeed, and it's nice that people want to hold the baby, but feeding her is something only I can do...that's just a fact of biology. I'd rather get help with things that I don't necessarily have the time to do while glued to the couch nursing.
A few of my friends brought dinners for me after my baby was born and they earned my eternal gratitude. I've been offering to cook dinners for every friend I know who's had a baby, because I know how deeply I appreciated those home-cooked meals.
I'll try this recipe, but I doubt it will be better than Betty Crocker's Beef Stew recipe (Betty Crocker's New Picture Cookbook, 1961.)
I made Julia's Beef Bourguignon and several others, and nothing comes close to Betty's.
I searched for the recipe online, this was the closest one I found: Old Fashioned Beef Stew I. My recipe is essentially the same except it omits the bay leaf, and includes a parsnip.
http://www.thriftyfun.com/tf824312.tip.html
First, what a thoughtful new mom gift, Sara. And second, I love that you used a Staub casserole—it's our favorite. This sounds delicious and so wonderfully simple. It reminds me of a deceptively simple Provençal dish I make, Layered Pot Roast with Anchovies, Capers and Garlic. So easy to assemble and deliciously complex.
Sorry, for me - nothing better than Julias' Boeuf Bourguignon. It's kinda like all or nothing for me. Hours of work and it pays off - the LAYERS of flavor are killer. I don't cook for a new child, however I do something for the mother such as a new nightie, scented candles or rich lotions in a basket. Focus changes from you to the baby at the minute of birth so it's important that mommy know she is still important and give her a little boost. Plus an excuse to go shopping and get me a little something!
The lamb ragu on this site is a great meal to take to new moms. It freezes wonderfully and just tastes better as left overs.
My best fried is expecting in three weeks so I'm also going to try to make the mini quiches. I'll also take over a lot of appetizer type stuff because I don't want her to worry about entertaining people.
Where were you all when I had my 3? I remember the day my youngest was born, rushing to the shops, and frying steak for the whole family because it was the quickest, easiest thing to make. Now, when I want to see friends with new babies, I usually invite them (and baby) out for lunch.
Never having a baby myself, I never even considered bringing food! I know, I know... sounds ridiculous now. I have a friend due in a few months and I am definitely going to bring her some grub after the big day!
A practical question... For the version with the lovely thick sauce, is there a good substitute for the flour when making it for a gluten-free new Mom?
I agree with Rachiti-- I'd hate to be made feel like a bad friend for not bringing food! After a close friend had her first baby, she really just wanted adult companionship. Having gone from a busy professional life to being home with a baby was a big change. She was happy to have me visit, watch Real Housewives and eat cheese and crackers and takeout.
In my group of moms our tradition for second (and more!) babies is to set up a Meal Train (mealtrain.com) to give the parents as many meals as possible in the weeks after the birth. Great, free site that makes it easy on everyone, and a wonderful supportive tradition in our group!
annamaria, arrowroot is a gluten-free thickening substitute (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arrowroot#Cooking).
I made version 1 and it was very good. The only wine I had was a Chiraz Cabernet so I used that. I was a little short of a half bottle so I soaked some dried morels and added the soaking liquid. I used salt pork and the 2 Tablespoons of oil called for, but there wasn't much fat to skim off. I did slightly thicken the sauce with a little Wondra Flour, because it was too runny for me.