Last night we were out with a dear friend, and we ordered a favorite dish for both of us: grilled artichokes with remoulade. It was smoky, crispy around the edges, and tender in the leaves. We stripped the delicious flesh off each artichoke leaf with our teeth, slowly taking the time to work through each one. It occurred to us that this may be the perfect food to eat during conversation with a good friend...
Artichokes force you to eat slowly and deliberately. They force you to look at your food and interact with your dining partner as you carefully take apart that spiky yet rewarding vegetable. And eating an artichoke ensures that your dinner will be a little longer, and a little fuller.
We ate that artichoke down to the core until there was just a pile of leaves and stems, raked by toothmarks, piled all over the plate and table. And we were full - not just with dinner, but with good conversation and friendship too.
It made us wonder - what are other foods like this that are best eaten over conversation with a good friend or two, making both the conversation richer by the food, and the food richer by the time together?
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Comments (7)
crab - you spend a lot of time breaking them up, so your mouth is rarely full, and it's messy and involved enough to keep the meal light, fun, and interactive.
a big platter of nachos, and 2 pints of beer.
Ditto crabs amt230. Or crayfish.
A nice variety of tapas!
Fondue or sushi is always nice!
a traditional cheese plate, with non-traditional cheeses... and of course good wine
Eating loads of tasty and beautiful dim sums at a bustling chinese Yum Cha restaurant is absolute favourite.