This wonderful video from Etsy features an unusual living situation: a variation on a commune in which four families share a beautiful piece land on the California coast. Each family has their own house, but the bathing and kitchen areas are shared. What do you think? Could you share a kitchen with three other families?
The house featured in the video belongs to Nikki Silva, one half of the well-known and respected radio series duo called the Kitchen Sisters. Nikki and her husband Charles Prentiss have been living in this arrangement since the 70s when they, together with seven other people, purchased land overlooking the gorgeous Monterey Bay near Santa Cruz, CA.
Eventually, each family ended up with an individual home, but the heart of the community is a large central house that contains bathing facilities and an enormous kitchen. Each night everyone gathers for dinner that was cooked by some one in the community, on a rotation system. In many ways the group seems like a family, enjoying the best of both worlds: the support and nourishment of community along with the privacy of individual units.
The kitchen, indeed the whole compound, is quite beautiful. There's a big professional stove, and lots of counter space and light. Even more stunning is the outdoor cooking area with a huge fireplace and pizza oven. Just the land alone would have been too much for an average person to afford, not to mention two amazing kitchens. In many cultures, especially in the past, it was not unusual for people to share kitchen and bathing areas. Only the very wealthy could afford their own facilities.
This way of living isn't for everyone, it's true, but it does seem to have some advantages. How about you? Would you be willing trade a little autonomy and privacy for a chance to eat dinner every night with some very interesting people in a very beautiful place?
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Yes, I could share a kitchen, especially if they'd let me do all the dishes in exchange for their doing all the cooking. Yes, I could share a dining room table, especially if people wouldn't talk with food in their mouths. I don't think you asked, but, no, I don't think I'd like sharing a bathing area. Thanks for sharing such a fun video!
Definitely I could share.
I'm a big fan of communal cooking and eating areas. Why not? You get better tools, dinnerware, and appliances, and a more heavy-duty system for the whole process. But, I agree also that sharing bathing areas would be tougher.
One of the things I like best about big kitchens are the access to really heavy-duty pots and pans and cook-surfaces. Living alone in NYC, my puny stove and cheap pans just don't do it...
What a beautiful space. I could definitely live there.
Beautiful. The property, the home, the kitchen, the concept, the video. These people must be very easy going and easy to get along with. It would take a very special group to make this work. I admire them. But, no, I wouldn't want to shower with them. :)
Beautiful property and I could definitely enjoy the idea of cooking and eating together. In terms of community-building, it's wonderful, and I'm sure it gives all of them much better access to high-end equipment that would be prohibitively expensive individually. However, communal bathing areas I'm not sure about. She didn't explain why that was necessary--just plumbing issues? Water conservation? It struck me as an odd thing to make collective.
Beautiful place, and I could absolutely share a giant industrial kitchen.
The shared bathroom was probably to save money - sounds like they were trying to build super cheap - but it sounds like it would be hard on growing teenagers. If the weather permitted it I'd probably just rig up a private outdoor shower - it's as can be if you're lucky looking for old shower stalls, and then you wouldn't have to build an interior room for it.
I think it's just because the individual houses were so small and built on a tight budget. I don't know.
I'd love to share a property with friends, but I wouldn't be comfortable with the shared bathroom and with not having individual cooking space. Too much of a control freak.
good article about cohousing here
http://www.guardian.co.uk/lifeandstyle/2010/may/01/cohousing-community-stroud
seems to be a growing movement
It sounds lovely, and I've lived in situations more or less like that. The buggy detail ended up being walking back and forth on cold and rainy days in the winter. So I'd be happiest in a series of attached buildings, I suppose.