It's easy to get into a cooking rut when you cook mainly for yourself. Of course it's also easy to get into one when you cook for your family or roommates, but it's far more likely for things to get shaken up in a larger household. Someone will take a trip and discover a new cuisine, for example, or develop an allergy or aversion, or come home with a recipe after a night at a new restaurant. But when you're single, it's all on you to keep it new and fresh in the kitchen, and that can be a challenge. Read on for seven ways to introduce new ways of cooking and thinking about food. (And yes, these tips will work for non-single households as well!)
Here are a few things that I do to keep it fresh and recapture my mojo in a solo kitchen:
1. Pick up something new.
Perhaps not every week, but several times a month I purchase an item that I'm not familiar with at the grocery store. This can be a spice, a kind of fish, or a new grain. Once home, the amazing internets provide cooking information and suddenly I'm at the stove and in the thrill of uncharted territory.
2. Try something you hate.
Sometimes we carry the notion that we dislike a food from an unhappy incident in the past. But if we give it a try today, we might discover that we've outgrown the dislike and are pleasantly rewarded with a new, delicious food to love.
3. Go to the library.
Cookbooks are expensive and they take up a lot of shelf space so we often don't experiment when it comes unfamiliar cuisines. The library is a perfect place to explore and discover recipes and cuisines that are new to you. If you find that you are using several recipes from a book or that you've renewed the cookbook twice and cannot bear to return it, then perhaps you can invest in your own copy.
4. Have people over to dinner. Often.
Cooking for others always broadens our horizons, requiring us to stretch beyond our comfort zone. If you've shied away from inviting your friend with an allergy to dinner because you didn't know how to cook for her, then read up on what's needed and enjoy the challenge of providing a meal utterly free of that ingredient.
5. Join (or start) a cooking club.
This can be organized in several ways but the basic premise is that people gather around once a month to share food, recipes, ingredients.
6. Take a cooking class or, if you're a crackerjack cook, offer to teach one.
There are many places besides fancy cooking schools to teach and learn these days. Try community centers, farmers markets, shelters, churches. Teaching or learning, either way your life will be richer.
7. Travel.
There's nothing like traveling to bring new tastes into our lives. If you cannot afford to go away, then visit the closest big city and explore all the ethnic neighborhoods. Or if you live in a city, try visiting a new neighborhood every weekend, with the ambition to try several new-to-you dishes. Most importantly, visit a grocery store and apply suggestion #1 (above).
What do you do to keep it fresh in your kitchen? What do you do when you fall into a cooking rut and can't get out? And finally, is there a particular dish or ingredient that has single-handedly given you your cooking mojo and excitement back?
Related: Cooking for One: Eating Alone
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I also recommend Joe Yonan's Serve Yourself. Even though I'm not cooking solo, it is inspiring and I love the message that you - yourself - are worth cooking for. Also, many of the dishes are big enough to share, esp w/a big salad.
+1 to making use of your local library. I read cookbooks just about every night and am much more inclined to borrow a cookbook of a new ingredient or cuisine I'm not familiar with than spending money on a cookbook I might not like or ever use.
I also think investing in a new piece of kitchen equipment can inspire different or new meals, if you have the space and money that is. I bought an electric pressure cooker last year and it's ended up being one of the greatest $100 kitchen investments ever, I use it a few times a week, much more than I figured I would.
Local library is great. Used book stores even better. I often find some odd random cookbook with older recipes or recipes from countries I haven't thought of before etc.
I find food TV shows inspiring as well as foodie movies like the Big Night or Dim Sum: A little bit of heart inspiring too.
1.Pick up something new~ I got two buckets of peaches last week. I have been trying all sorts of recipes with peaches.
3. Go to Library~ I like to add, the Food Channel. Even a 30 seconds commercial about making blackberry lemonade inspired me to pick up blackberries and mint from my yard and whip some up.
4. Invite people for dinner~ Invite people to teach them a dish and get them to teach you a new dish.
7. Travel~ or venture to a new restaurant in town. I always get inspired.
The change of season is doing it for me. After eating salads all summer, I suddenly want to get back in the kitchen with these cool evenings.
That said, I'm currently poring through all the cookbooks I own, looking for interesting things I've never made before.
Cooking with someone else always helps! Instead of going out to dinner this weekend, my boyfriend and I are going to try a new recipe.
cooking for one can definitely be a challenge, I based my website on it in fact. for me, the easiest way to keep motivated in the kitchen is to have a well-stocked pantry full of ingredients ready to go (there's a link on my site for how to stock a pantry). That way you always have go-to items ready for you when you stop by the farmer's market and grab what's fresh in season, or find a new ingredient that you want to try. if you need some inspiration, my site is full of recipes: www.gourmetrecipesforone.com. I hope you'll check it out...
Well, it was already mentioned but I never even learned to cook until I developed a wheat allergy and began eating meat again. Cooking meat is so much easier than cooking vegetables, it gave me a new recipe and new confidence that made me into.....I can't even believe it, a cook. Also shopping less - having very few things in your pantry is great for creativity.
The library suggestion works for me most of the time.
I find my strongest ideas build from illustrated cooking technique books at the library rather than specific recipe collections. It's easy to transfer one new kitchen skill to familiar recipes to change the flavor.
@SeattleJ: I use TV shows for inspiration too. A forum member on another cooking site recommended watching solid quality public broadcast shows, like old re-runs of Jacques Pepin, or America's Test Kitchen, to pick up new techniques and perspectives. I found this works well for broadening how I cook.
I love suggestion #2! If I didn't revisit my supposed dislikes every so often, I would never have found out that I actually love avocados, pickles, and beets. Childhood prejudices were holding me back.
I've been watching re-runs of Masterchef Australia Season 1, and I find that I am having a lot more fun cooking lately.
My husband is having a lot more fun eating, too.
I've been watching America's Test Kitchen (and it's spinoff in Vermont, Cook's Country) as well as my favorite cooking show (sadly now only in reruns) Good Eats. Those shows give me lots of inspiration even if I couldn't eat some things due to allergies or just generally disliking them.
My wife could eat at a restaurant every night. I can't. Give me home cooked over restaurant food any day!
I've been on a frozen yogurt kick lately so much that I've actually made my own yogurt (in mason jars like suggested here on the Kitchn) so sometimes one recipe leads to another. :)
I live in rural Oklahoma, and the recent wildfires and resulting burn ban have made me move away from my summertime default dinner (anything cooked on the grill) to explore more summertime recipes that don't heat up the kitchen OR burn down the house.
Now that my daughter has started school again, I find myself planning more meals that can be reused as leftovers for her lunch or as quickie dinners when we have evening obligations.
It seems each season brings a new challenge, and I find my inspiration through that.
Very good post. Thanks. Thanks also to Karen, ATurnip and LDGourmet for their helpful comments
lately i have found simplifying meals has been the most motivating thing ever. Its easy to let cooking snowball into more and more advanced recipes and get worn out. dont forget to keep it simple sometimes.
It's probably too late in the year for many readers, but I got a CSA. Having an unpredictable haul from my local farm forces me to get creative (rutabaga, anyone?) and when I get too many veggies (I'm just one gal) I try cooking new soups for canning, or make a large dish of something that I can freeze for nights when I'm too tired to dive in.
I've been slowly chipping away at a lasagna I made with my own tomato sauce and some kale several weeks ago and froze. Tonight I'll be canning more tomato sauce that I can pull out in winter months when I don't have access to such fresh ingredients.
I love this post!! After being with my ex-partner for a number of years I found it really hard when I was on my own to come up with new, healthy, exciting meals for myself. To try and get my "mojo" back I started a blog on solo cooking to force myself to make great meals for just me. Check it out: http://thecerealdiner.tumblr.com/
Great list & great timing from where I sit. Dh has joined the increasing numbers of *super-commuters* after an extended layoff. He's away 3 wks at a stretch with 2 wk breaks working from home in between. I've suddenly found myself cooking solo for the first time in my life (and i ain't no spring chicken). I've discovered two things about myself in the process...
(1) I never learned HOW to cook for one.
(2) My JOY of cooking is rooted in serving others.
Re #1: I learned to cook for a family of 5. Could put a meal on the table complete w/dessert unassisted at age 12. At that age I could even can, pickle, freeze with a little supervision. Point being, I've discovered while it's elementary to INCREASE a recipe (that generally only exists in my head - a pinch of this or a dash of that) it's another animal altogether to DECREASE one. I simply cannot.do.it.
Re #2: I truly enjoy cooking & love to experiment with new foods and/or new recipes but cooking for just me is no fun at all, at all. Sorry if that sounds selfish but I'm in desperate need of some inspiration. I've managed all these yrs because I usually freeze half of what I cook for those nights that it 'just ain't happenin' in the kitchen. Now that dh is rarely home, those frozen dinners provide dinner & a couple lunches for me. But my stash is getting low after a few months & I need to get BACK IN THE KITCHEN. (yeah, i said months...that's how much food I had put up).
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excellent post! i lost and refound my mojo recently - after the flu, then failed dinners, i was at rock bottom. in fact, i wrote about this very recently on my own blog.
i got the library books out, and thought about what i like cooking and what i'm good at - doing old favourites is just as good as trying something new if you've lost your fizz, for getting your confidence back.
i look forward to checking out those "cooking for one" blogs listed here - thank you!
I have a ridiculous number of new-to-me recipes bookmarked, dog-eared, clipped, and pinned, all waiting to be put to use. When I'm stuck in a rut I just force myself to cook these saved recipes on a regular schedule. I'm so used to going on autopilot with my standard flavors and techniques, but following written recipes inevitably challenges my notions of how food should work and kickstarts the creative process.
i love the traveling idea- that is a fantastic way to learn about new foods and cooking styles. i've lived abroad many times, and i would always ask my host families to teach me their favorite dishes, or the ones that represented their cultures, and i would do the same about mine. some of my best memories and photos are of cooking with them...
one family never had fresh baked cookies before! it was a hilarious and special moment when i made them my grandmother's favorite recipe. another family never had real Italian tomato sauce for spaghetti. they had been using ketchup! all i can say is thank goodness for internet accessible recipes!!
I've been low on the mojo lately. My partner got diagnosed with diabetes a few months ago, so he had to stop eating out all the time, and suddenly I was cooking for two--and with a bunch of new rules on how to do it. At the time it was stimulating and interesting, but now I'm feeling a bit burnt out by cooking EVERY SINGLE DAY, which I've never done before. I'm hoping that I'll start to feel a bit more inspired as fall starts up. I'm also precooking and freezing some things now so that I can have a night off once in a while.
I choose one cookbook and/or cuisine to cook my way through each winter (a long season here in the upper Midwest). It has helped us discover new tastes and has stretched me as a cook.
You can download cookbooks from your local public library if you have a library card -- they allow you to keep for three weeks. The emedia selection is not as great as hard copy libraries, but growing and good enough. I cannot tell you the amount of cookbooks I have downloaded, perused and referred to -- I agree, a great way to get your cooking mojo back.
Like many singles, I am also on a strict budget (even when it comes to my groceries). I check out the produce and seafood specials in my weekly grocery circular. This helps me plan my weekly meals and shopping list around the best deals - which often results in fun and new cooking experiments.
Share lunches with a friend! One day s/he cooks, one day you do. It's fun plus you'll make an extra effort and eat better and plus (most importantly) you'll get alternative days off!
Though I rarely lose my cooking mojo for long, it does go on a hiatus at times. For me it's all about the clean-up. You know, love to cook but hate to clean up. So I've moved my cooking philosophy to the one pan approach. It's fun to think about how to make a complete meal in one skillet or pot and isn't as hard as it sounds. Just add and remove food as it is cooked and then usually finish it all together in one pan with a sauce. My focus is now on cooking for two since it's just my husband and I most nights. Leftovers were a problem for me as I was throwing more away than we were reheating, so now I just cook as much as we will eat in one sitting and it works for us, no guilt.
What, no look to vintage cookbooks? Lol. Dozens are available for free on Kindle and Project Gutenberg - some of it is awful, but some of them are wonderful!
I second the library thing - our local library (a ways away from where we live, alas) has TWO ROWS (as in, floor-to-ceiling bookshelves rows) of cookbooks and books about food. It's WONDERFUL.
Having a clean kitchen always helps. When all the dishes are washed and dried and put away and the fridge is clean and all my countertops are spotless, I feel like cooking WAY MORE than when the dishes are piled up.
Thanks yellow coffee cup! Methinks I've just found my inspiration Used to do this years ago with a single friend and we both had great fun - plus the important day off.
@ Carla Snyder, yes, it's FUN & I love me a good one pot meal. It's not the cleanup I mind so much as I clean as I go (on autopilot - thanks dad!). I just find one pot meals less stressful esp after a long day. Perhaps because my attention is focused on one thing/pan and & I'm not monitoring several things at once. And all the better if that 'one pot' is the crockpot & dinner is done when I walk in the door!
@ vintagejenta: Vintage cookbooks are The Best (tho my idea of 'vintage' and yours might differ by decades...er, years, lol). I find the simple, basic recipes refreshing & can whip them up at a moment's notice - no quick trip to the store because there's a couple ingredients I don't normally have on hand. For example, I've been cooking with various herbs & spices for many years & sometimes it's fun to-re-discover just how really GOOD fruits & veggies are all on their own. .
I signed up for emeals - they send me my weekly recipes, complete with shopping list. They balance the nutrition and budget, all I do is cook! I've tried some cool new recipes with them, and am loving it!
For more details, check out my experience on my blog http://bonnieprojects.blogspot.com/2012/09/dinner-crisis.html