A few weeks ago I wrote a piece called Coming Home to My Mother's Kitchen. I asked readers to send me photographs of them in their childhood kitchens, the spaces where they first learned to cook and to love food. The emails poured in. Readers sent images and long, flowing memories of cooking at home. They were such intimate offerings to me, a stranger; almost like love letters.
It was Thanksgiving when I first wrote the piece, and so I thought of this experience in terms of gratitude and thankfulness. That stays with me. But now, as the holidays and a new year come barreling down the calendar and I flip through these images, I'm revisiting this notion of the kitchens where we first learned to love food. While the sense of gratitude still thrives within, I'm now also thinking about how simple these rooms are and yet what richness they produce amidst such functionality and simplicity.
Most of us start young; children in kitchens can even embrace the joy of organizing the drawers or doing dishes, and for this I think of Tara Austen Weaver, above.
This week my daughter and I spent time in our little city kitchen — her kitchen, really, — dipping our toes into what is sure to be a few weeks of amped-up cooking for the holiday break. I warmed the house by braising some short ribs and we made a batch of salt dough ornaments for the tree. She perched on her knees on a stool, wrapped in an apron, flour-dusted and nourished.
I think of Melissa Clark and her first dough-rolling experiences, above. I also think of our own dear Emma Christensen, below.
It's not until we actually cook our own food and watch the magic happen that we fully love food. At least that's what I believe, and that is what was confirmed to me when my readers and colleagues wrote to tell me about the kitchens of their youths.
And so, with generational cooking, humble kitchens and the spirit of gathering on my mind, I share with you some of my favorite images from our readers of their childhood kitchens and hope that it kicks off your end-of-year cooking with a memory of the place where you first truly and madly fell in love with food.
(Images: Via our readers and a few esteemed colleagues. Thank you.)










Comments (18)
Love these pictures so much! Snapshots in time laying foundations for a lifetime.
Best pictures on earth. THANK YOU for helping us remember what's important.
Such a wonderful post! Sara, I would love to see you do a book about this! I would buy it for myself and everyone I know in a heartbeat! Happy holidays!
No men? Nothing ever changes...
@kushkush - actually there are two males here: one adult and one child.
So great...I have a photo of my children (ages 2 & 3) standing on chairs (the theme of course) helping me make a chocolate cake. Both are in "footie" pajamas with cake batter about their lips. I can see that moment in my mind even without the photo in front of me:) Thanks for sharing others sweet memories and bringing ours to mind.
These are adorable. What a cute idea!
Sweet, sweet, sweet! I have loads of kitchen memories form my childhood, but no photographs. These are treasures.
Love it. I second the book idea. I would buy too for me and everyone I know.
Great follow-up to the original post. When the call for photographs first came out, I looked and had my older sister (who has assumed the role as keeper of all old family photos) for pictures of my mom and I in the kitchen but nothing came up. Regardless, I have wonderful memories that helped to shape who I am today and my love for cooking and feeding those I care about.
Darling pictures! Reminds me of my son pulling stuff out of cabinets and banging on them.
What a wonderful post! I love these photos! I too looked for pictures of me in the kitchen, but the only one I could find was one of me having a bath in the kitchen sink at 9 months or so! But I was the official Sunday morning pancake maker and from the age of about 5 I made them completely by myself except I needed help with the cooking (and especially the flipping!) Maybe that's when the kitchen became my happy place?
I, too, love these photos. I wish I had photos of me cooking with my mom; she made the best pies in the world! My happiest memories cooking with her: She would make pies, several at a time. She rolled out the dough for crusts and gave me some dough. My dough was rolled out by me and put into metal jar lids for little pies. She would help me fill them and make the top crust look nice--I shared these reluctantly with my brothers. I can't make anything in the kitchen that holds a candle to my mom's pies!
This is a great post and I love Tara's quote.
I am so blessed, I cook every day in the kitchen where I grew up. I realized not long ago that it's now been my kitchen longer than it was my mother's. I feel her with me everytime I'm in it. I've changed some things, some remain true (the clock on the wall, a needlepoint I made for her that says "Kiss The Cook", the teapot). I guess it will always really be "our" kitchen.
Oh my goodness! I'm sitting here 20 weeks pregnant with our first daughter just bawling my eyes out! What a sweet post!
I second the book idea (though I would probably not read it while pregnant).
Thank you so much for this post. I looked through my childhood pictures and just posted a few on my blog (http://myfrenchcuisine.blogspot.com/2012/01/childhood-memories.html).
Such talented people out there! I can't wait to sell this house and go through my boxes of photos of 5 kids cooking and just being!! Thanks for the memories of me, as well!!!